Can't Stop Wanting Women

One thing I've found that's helped in this area is the idea of 'abundance'. If you are coming from a place of lack then you might be looking at women from a place of lack i.e. pointed, needful, hungry, desirous. One good idea is to let yourself feel the feeling that you want from them before you've even got it... For example, if what you are really after is a feeling of being attractive, then allow yourself to feel attractive; or if you're after a feeling of powerfulness, allow yourself to feel powerful. Don't seek it from an outward source, get it from within.

Having said that, if you're heterosexual you are likely to always be attracted to women. I suppose it's just about whether or not you are objectifying, pointed, needy, when you look at them, OR refreshed, happy, fulfilled, and feel positive when you look at a women.

 

Idea explained better here:

 

Here's also Eckhart Tolle on it:

"Who you think you are is intimately connected with how you see yourself treated by others. Many people complain that others do not treat them well enough. When people are kind they suspect hidden motives. Who they think they are is a needy person whose needs are not being met. This basic misperception creates dysfunction in all their relationships. They believe they have nothing to give and that the world and other people are withholding from them what they need. If the thought of lack –whether it is money, recognition, love – has become part of who you think you are, you will always experience lack.

Acknowledging the good that is already in your life is the foundation for all abundance. The fact is: Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world. You are withholding it because deep down you think you are small and that you have nothing to give.

Try this: Whatever you think people are withholding from you – give it to them. You don’t have it? Just act as if you have it and it will come. Soon after you start giving, you will start receiving. You cannot receive what you don’t give. Outflow determines inflow. Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you already have, but unless you allow it to flow out, you won’t even know you have it. This includes abundance.

The source of abundance is not outside you. It is part of who you are. Abundance comes only to those who already have it. It is a universal law. Both abundance and scarcity are inner states that manifest as your reality."

 

Ha sorry for essays...

 

Hahaha!

 

It's alright man! Feel like I am constantly learning from NoFap so it's always good to pass on ideas/get them passed on to you

 

I am the same. Can't stop ogling. Can't stop yearning for them. I need to get over it. It is so painful, lol. I am especially doomed cos I know I can never have one.

I honestly feel like I will never experience a passionate woman again, precisely because I am virtually married to a cold passionless masculine person.

Urrrghhhh...today has been so awful. Been feeling dead inside.

Though I am at a record on my NoFap practice.