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Seriously close to a relapse

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Jakob, Sep 28, 2015.

  1. Jakob

    Jakob Fapstronaut

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    In a rough spot now...
    Last night I was rejected by my wife, and a bit sexually frustrated, when the movie I was watching suddenly showed one of the sexiest women I've seen in a long time. The scene wasn't explicit in any way, and contained no sex, but my mind went bananas!
    Fast forward two hours later, and I have my phone by the bed and I'm watching porn. So, I sadly have to reset the P.
    But the MO, thankfully, is intact! (Two weeks and three days.) (Where's the counter, anyway?)
    Today my little brain is arguing with the rest of me, mainly just by insane rushes of urges. I'm holding on for dear life.
    Those few minutes of porn sparked an avalanche of lust.
    I've excluded marital sex from my reboot so far, since that just came back into play like a month ago, after almost a year off the table. (We've had some rough times, and are finally getting better.)
    But I see that it is creating a disturbance in the force, so I'm considering dropping that too, now. At the same time having my wife as the only inspiration and outlet is a wonderful thing in itself!
    The alternative is to do the reboot at a later time, but that opens up for porn again, so I'm torn on this one.
    Any advice, both to stay clean, and how to -if it's possible- combine marital sex with no PMO?
     
  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Jake:

    My advice is to change your location, position, activity....get up and move. Go DO something. Run an errand, take a walk, do a chore. Get away from the computer or phone.

    I am not married, so I'll leave those subjects for others to address with advice.

    Do you owe anyone a call? Someone in need? Helping others can be a great outlet for that sexual energy.
     
  3. Jakob

    Jakob Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for some good advice. Yes, changing the state would probably help. Tried a cold shower once, too, and that works. (And feels quite good once the body realizes it's not going to die.)
    Haven't called my grandmother in way too long, so I'll get going reaching out too.
     

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