How do I get over my insecurity of a barely average tool and arousal from humiliating genres

Well it's funny the problems we have. I have a pretty big set of equipment and I don't get any offers.
Have you been off PMO for awhile yet?

 

I doubt they will. How is anyone to know what I'm packing unless I pull it out? lol
Don't start fapping again. Get on a small streak and build from there. As you continue, you'll feel better about yourself.

 

Eh, I think people put way too much emphasis on size. Even guys with genuine micro d's find partners and you can please your partner in a lot of ways that don't involve a dick. You can still have a great sex life with someone even if you do have insecurities about yourself. You have to realize it.

Your insecurities end up just serving as an excuse to PMO and I say that as someone who has done the same thing in the past. It's a crutch used to bring you back to the illusion of comfort that is PMO and realizing that will help you stop the cyclical behavior.

 

Try and accept there is nothing any of us can do about size, nothing. Maybe you shouldn't even think about dating, relationships or sex until you have kicked this fapping addiction. Why not think about giving yourself 6 months and then start thinking about that side of your life. Some things in life we can change like watching porn and fapping but some things we just have to accept that no matter how much we want to change it we can't

 

Based on experience of reading numerous threads about penis size, you may not have an accurate impression of what is average. Flaccid length is irrelevant but what length do you have when erect? You maybe worried without reason.

 

I guess that insecurity of yours is preventing you from discovering that women who are worth don't even care about size (even more if, as you state, is on the average). Stop turning down opportunities and discover for yourself that it's only in your head.

 

I'm kinda in the same situation as you (minus the porn). Stuff I'm doing:

1. Working out my dick (forum link in my signature)
It's entirely possible to gain 2 inches in a few years if you do it right. I've gained 0.8in this year by just stretching for a few minutes a day. If you put in the work, you'll get results.

2. Working on how I view other men
I'm going to hazard a guess that seeing other men as walking dicks is not a good thing. I've noticed that my hung friends don't make me feel insecure, which I think is because I see them as people first. I started a thread about this topic: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/defeating-insecurity-with-the-power-of-friendship.334039/

good luck bro

 

Just be the best man you can be. Like I said, I'm well-endowed down there. The problem is I don't have movie star looks, so no women really pay attention to me. Quit worrying about them.

 

OK mate. I am a grower, too.

 

Hello bro, if you do not enjoy normal sex where you are the penetrating role, the reason you like humiliation fetishes is because you belong to behaviour group 3.
Since you are insecure about your PP, I suspect the fetish you enjoy the most is SPH, but ofcouse there are other fetishes with humiliation you like as well.

Search dissidentus theory about sexuality, skip to behaviour group 3. youtube.
BREAK THE EMOTIONAL BARRIER. Act against your emotions when dealing with strangers, people who have not recognized your value.

You are welcome, if you understand the video, i just change your life. Otherwise wait for a new video; How to escape behaviour group 3.

 

It's really not risky. Injuries are few, far between, and easily recovered from. I understand if you decide not to do it, but not doing it is a mistake.

 

If I'm being honest, I don't think I'm insecure because I think I won't be able to please a woman as well as a guy with a big dick. I just think big dicks are really cool and I'm mad because I don't have one.

Women have shown that size is low on their list of priorities. We men just can't seem to get it out of our heads.