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How do I get over my insecurity of a barely average tool and arousal from humiliating genres

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by BrSweat, Jul 17, 2022.

  1. We know there are no long-term consequences because the original generation of pp stretchers is still around, and they haven't mentioned any issues. Thunder's Place is 20 years old, and there are members who've been doing this since before it was created.

    Once you get to your target size, you can just do a maintenance routine to keep from losing size. (Like in bodybuilding maintenance routines, it takes like 20% of what you did to get where you are.)

    I really recommend this. It won't solve your or my problems, but literally making your dick bigger can definitely help you feel better about it.
     
  2. Upwards2020

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    Well it's not BIG . But 6.7 inches at 5ft6 and a bit of a baby face ...the suck is real
     
  3. DevilMayFry

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    Hey mate, have you ever had any sexual experiences? If so, how did they go?
     
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    The only way you can add size to your dick is by losing weight . Every 30lbs of fat you gain an inch which is hidden by fat .
     
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  5. I've gained 0.8in in the last year. My fat pad has remained at 0.5in the entire time.

    The penis is made of smooth muscle and a collagen/elastin mix, all three of which can grow.
     
  6. BrSweat

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    Man, 6.7in is big lol. Im 6'0, manly face and physique but barely at 5in. But I think both our situations suck bro lmfao
     
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    Ive only had one hook up with a girl. My dick was limp and I had delayed ejaculation , needless to say our "sex" session ended extremely awkwardly. But I definitely felt small while she was trying to ride me but she had a fat ass tok so I guess Ill only go for petite girls next time lol
     
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    I think most women will agree that the size doesn’t matter that much. Not to extend of judging or not wanting to have sex. I wouldn’t worry if I were you. The women I was with and I had quite a large number never expressed that guys with smaller dicks are lesser.
    I am above average and had opposite issue. Some positions you can’t do because you hit the uterus and it can be hurtful. Petite women I would think would even prefer a smaller guy vs a big one.
     
  9. BrSweat

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    How comes chicks in P and the ones in amateur vids take big tools then lol. My perception has always been that women want intense s*x with giant peens, like (7+in) atleast majority of them and being barely avg is such a downer. I cant change my size, just gotta live with it
     
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  10. 6.7 inches is above average.
     
  11. Chris333

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    Because its porn and They give you all these ideas It has nothing to do with real life I had petite girls and I am above average and I always have to be careful and for them it’s like too much
     
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  12. Pornstars have big dicks because big dicks look cool.
     
  13. LeifHaugen

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    Have you considered that youve suggested its small so many times that you have convinced yourself of this? The power of suggestion is major, and porn of course plays a big role. Men of ancient cultures didnt watch porn, to if they had below average schlong then it wasnt a big deal only whores would have noticed. What I do every night before bed is listen to a recording that I made talking about how I am not attracted to my fetish, because I want to reverse what I have convinced myself over time with porn and much masterbation what I find hot. My cousin was convinced that he was gay by his brother who would often call him gay. The one who became gay was completely straight before, but he admitted that because his brother called him gay so much he became convinced of it and now hes gay. The power of suggestion is very strong, but why do we only use this for negative. Make a recording of yourself, say positive things about yourself. Anytime that negative shit comes popping into your head you reverse those thoughts into good confident building thoughts. Its more about confidence anyways, I have a friend who is unfortunately very ugly, but let me tell you this guy pulls 9s and 10s, and its because hes confident in himself. Women will lose respect for you not because of your size but the way that you treat your size and your manliness. If you are not confident they will pick up on that and treat you accordingly. My ugly friend has admitted that hes ugly and that he doesnt give a fuck and its never stopped him from going after the hottest women and of course they respect him because he has balls of steel and confidence.
     
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    If you havent you should check out my post on mineral treatment/healing, especially if you are still watching porn. Itll be pretty redundant to convince yourself of positive confidence building thoughts if you are still engaging in humiliation porn or any porn really. You need to get off the porn first and foremost and I made a post explaining a potential way to do that. Everyone is different so Im not suggesting its a cure all thing but it does it seems give good results for me and a few of my friends. If you pair that with your own confidence suggestion strategy every day I think youll see a positive change in your happiness and sexual lifestyle.
     
  15. Anything over 5.5 inches is at least average according to most studies (measured tip to base along the top, fully erect, not pressing into the skin at the base of the penis)
    I'm 4.5 inches and 6ft0, good looking but not in a rugged testosterone way. Women expect me to be packing at least 6 inches . . . the suck is real.

    At least for them! Haha! :D
     
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  16. Most studies I've seen use bone-pressed measurements, so some of you guys may not be as "short" as you think.

    BPEL (Bone-Pressed Erect Length) is more helpful for studies than NBPEL (Non-Bone-Pressed Erect Length) because it virtually ignores the fat pad, meaning the researchers don't need to account for some men being fatter than others.

    Basically you just put the ruler on top of your dick, turn it vertical (so it doesn't go under your pubic bone), and jam it in until it hurts. (the only way to "cheat" on BPEL is to lean back and thrust your hips into the ruler)

    The studies aren't really accurate enough to determine the exact "average BPEL", but we can pretty much be sure that it's between 5.5 and 6 inches.
     
  17. Ten you could be 6 inches in two years of consistent stretching. I understand if you think it'll make your mental issues worse, but man, I really don't see why you wouldn't want to try it.
     
  18. True. I think both measurements have value and have seen both used in studies. And, with bone press, I can push my "true" length to 5 inches.
    It's a great way to make everyone feel better about their penis length, but what use is that portion of the penis buried in the fat pad. It's useless for penetration and isn't visually stimulating for a partner. In practice, we're not even going to get full penetration with the exposed part of our penis.

    Anyway you slice it, I know that I have a shorter than average (but, just like the OP, not a tiny or micro-) penis. I think it's helpful to accept reality as it is and I'm grateful for the handful of women who have had the gumption to give it to me straight.
     
  19. I agree that NBPEL is more important, but BPEL is the best way to measure, so that's how we measure. Your penis is legitimately 5 inches long, just 1 inch away from the 6 your height suggests. (Of course while height is slightly correlated with size, simply having "big pp" genes has much more of an influence, so expecting tall people to be big is rather silly.)

    The 6 is within your reach my friend.
     
  20. BrSweat

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    Same story, im 6'0 too amd decent looking, i think we shouldnt put too much stock into our size as difficult as that is, life isnt all about sex anyways so. Take care my friend
     
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