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Fetishising men

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Dec 20, 2021.

  1. A long time ago I got into "cuckolding" porn, as well as other types of porn. This led me to be turned on by men when I never had been before. Eventually I became so convinced that I was attracted to men, I set up meetings with men on Grindr. As it turned out these men actually disgusted me sexually when I met up with them, so I had to make some excuse to leave.

    I don't know if I am actually bisexual or porn got me into thinking I am attracted to men.
     
  2. HelperX

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    You are not bisexual. You are only bisexual if you are okay and comfortable with you being attracted to men. If you are not okay with that, then that's the only thing you need, to know that you are not bisexual.

    Porn is total evil. Stay away from it like the plague for your mental and physical wellbeing.
     
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  3. Thanks for replying. It's incredible how powerful it is.
     
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  4. Upwards2020

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    Kind of similar to trans porn . 10s of thousands spent on surgery and hormone replacement and slap in front of a camera and it looks like a women and . You will see this in porn with two cis gender women but with using a strap on . Doesn't take a stretch of the imagination to imagine to a real version not that that had ever crossed my mind before I had ever seen it. I wouldn't say trans are evil as in porn that is not the subject at hand honestly I dont know what they are nor do they apparently . But watching that visually can be confusing. Anytime I see this stuff there is always the aftermath that feels physically and mentally uncomfortable, takes at least a few days for the stress levels to return to normal
     
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  5. Art_tree

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    I don't know if I am actually bisexual or porn got me into thinking I am attracted to men.[/QUOTE]

    Sadly, the same happed to me too...
     
  6. Sadly, the same happed to me too...[/QUOTE]
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    What are your thoughts on your sexuality?

    There are a lot of porn themes which i didn't like originally. I don't know what sexual interests are natural and what are por induced
     
  7. PrinceDaniel

    PrinceDaniel Fapstronaut

    I was in the same situation as you guys a while ago. I seriously doubted my sexuality. I have been watching cuckold, forced-bi, and even gay humiliation video's for years. Eventually, I tried to meet up with some men. Luckily, I never did. Just the thought of a man kissing me makes me feel miserable. But the miserable feeling was also a relief, because now I know I am straight 100%.

    Don’t let modern society fool you.
     
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  8. Interesting that it's happened to others. I'm glad you didn't go through with anything. I was absolutely convinced I was bisexual, as I didn't think porn could be strong enough to make me think I am attracted to men. I was surprised to find my desire switch as soon as I saw men in person. Even though it is only in the context where I have watched porn in which I am attracted to them. It happened on a few of occasions that I met up with men, in one case it was really awkward to escape from.
     
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  9. Hearts

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    Yes I agree. I am bisexuali although not out as I'm very worried how my mum would react and my father who passed away once said he could understand gay and hetro but not bi. I know I'm bi. I will look at both guts and girls and feel the same reaction. I don't have a personal problem with being bi but it's crazy I just can't admit it as I can't change who I am
     
  10. They say that the first step to getting rid of unwanted thoughts is to accept them. I wonder if that's why even though I have the same issues as you guys, it's not a problem for me? Because I accept that I might be bi?

    My point of view: I like women. I might also like men. So? I can just date women, and not date men. Problem solved.
     
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