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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Jul 21, 2022.

  1. It all started when I was 11 years old, I was beginning to discover mastubation and hearing my classmates talk about porn. Out of curiosity I googled porn and started to see, I was fascinated, over time, I began to masturbate watching porn, increasing the amount every day, after 2 years increasing the intensity of porn, watching porn videos of more extreme categories, gangbangs, bondage, bestiality, etc... Now, I try to stop watching porn, but I feel really lonely, I feel like trash, I feel like my parents didn't support me, I feel like nobody supported me. I don't know if I should tell someone, I don't have anyone to tell it to, that's why I'm writing this... I don't know if the text is understood since I wrote it with the help of the google translator since English is not my main language.
     
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  2. Hii
    @R3ndo
    I think you are new here.
    So I welcome you. Which year ( not age ) did you start to watch porn by the way ?
    You googled that means you started after 2014 or later years.
    I have the same problems like you but recently I told some of my trust friends. Still it is very difficult to quit porn. Porn is a lie. Friends are lying about their porn habit. They will tell you that they are enjoying it but they are also suffering from it. Porn is a disease.

    Your english is completely understandable translated tho

    What is your age ?
    What is your longest streak ?
    When did you understand that you need to quit ?
    Write your addiction story here. It will help you get out of it.
     
  3. I am 15 years old, although in my profile I put that I was born in 2003 because I think that if I put that I am 18 years old or younger, it does not let me do some things. My longest streak is 14 days. I understood that I had to eliminate porn from my life when I saw bestiality videos for the first time. My story with addiction began as I said before, when I was 11 years old when out of curiosity I googled what pornography was because my classmates were talking about it. A few days later, I started watching more porn and masturbating watching it. Almost every day, I saw more porn, I didn't give it any importance, I thought that's what teenagers do and it was normal, I spent two years watching the same type of porn until after that, I started looking for other categories and that's how I increased the intensity, I discovered a category and a few days later I got bored, then I discovered another category and the same thing happened... But one day, I discovered a video of bestiality, after watching it, I realized what I had done, I felt terrible , then I started to analyze my consumption of porn in recent years. I concluded that I had an addiction.
     
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  4. Bawa

    Bawa Fapstronaut

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    You are already in the first step to quit this, since you find it as something not good to go with.
     
  5. bertieboy

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    You are on the first step to recovery knowing you are addicted and accepting you have a problem. Stay here with the group and move forward away from porn. If you join in you will recieve support from other guys who are in the same position as you. We all have the same problem and all want to escape from this awful addiction which is destroying our lives. Good luck and keep moving forward
     
  6. You're so young and already aware of being addicted. That's very mature, so don't think of yourself badly! You're also lucky, because some guys here have been addicted for much longer and realised that very late (e.g. I was addicted for 14 years!). It means that your brain is probably in a very good condition to get rid of the addiction for good!

    Unfortunately, it's not that easy, but if you go through this, you'll become a wonderful adult who understands what it really means to fight. It's rare these days...

    You'll find numerous pieces of advice, but here are mine:
    -Every addiction is different because every person is different. There are things that an addict should generally do to be successful, but without forgetting about his/her individuality. What triggers your urges? That's your porn. Everybody's porn is different, it doesn't have to be nudity. Avoid 'your porn' at all cost!
    -Realise two things: 1) you will never look at any porn ever again in your life, 2) you will never masturbate (and maybe orgasm because of it) ever again in your life. If you understand the truth about those two facts, you'll be successful. Otherwise, your mind will start finding excuses like "When I beat my addiction, I can look at porn from time to time." or "I can masturbate from time to time when I'm through with this addiction." No, you can't! An ex-alcoholic NEVER reaches for alcohol in his life.
    -Use this forum to find every information you need. Don't be afraid to ask any questions. Write when you're feeling down. We're all here to help and win this fight together!

    Stay strong! I wish you the best!
     
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  7. Thanks for the support, I feel better :)
     
  8. metreveli92

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    Hello, please help me if you have any experience about this. I masturbated for many years. I was overdoing it and addicted. I became mentally ill. Because the hormonal imbalance also affected me physically. Serotonin dopamine increases during excessive masturbation. And in short, I suffer from all these symptoms to this day. How can I treat it? To get this hormonal balance back? Please tell me what to do
     
  9. Wally542

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    Just wanted to say quickly, it's ok to put your real age on here. There's a section for people under 20, i've seen people there as young as 13 years old who are on this site.
    It's actually extremely good that you're here from a very early age, don't let this addiction catch up to you
     
  10. bertieboy

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    Hi if you have hormonal imbalance you should really see a doctor who might put you on medication. It is true when we watch porn and masturbate we get a huge surge of dopamine and that is what keeps us addicted because it causes new pathways in the brain. That is why we need to stop watching porn and masturbating for a certain length of time to reboot our brains. When we get the urge to watch porn and masturbate it is because the brain is screaming out for a dopamine surge to make us feel good and that is when we watch porn and masturbate. However this is very short lived and once again the brain screams out for more, and so it goes on creating a cycle or circle and that circle has to be broken in order to eliminate the bad effects we experience and so we have to reboot. Not easy but with the help and support of others here I believe it is possible. Have you read the ebook you can download on this site it has lots of information about porn addiction. Good luck with your journey and remember you are not alone all the guys here have the same problem
     
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  11. metreveli92

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    thank for the support bro ❤️✊
     
  12. MrPriest

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    15 years old, already aware of the issue, with predisposition to tackle it and improve, I will venture to say we have a freaking legend on the making before us gentlemen.

    You are going to do great son.

    May god bless you.
     

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