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Porn is the epitome of cuck culture

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by B L A N K F A C A E, Jul 28, 2022.

  1. B L A N K F A C A E

    B L A N K F A C A E Fapstronaut

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    Lets put this in hunter gatherer scenario,you live in the village and you have hots for this cavewoman but you are not her type because you dont have status,you dont kill enough mammoth and she goes with the other guy in to the bushes and he gives her a little one two,you go climb a tree you watch them and you beat off.Thats what porn is,its like you watching someone bang someone you wish you were banging.This is the man i dont want to be
     
  2. It's amazing how similar our stories are, it almost always (eventually) turns into some type of submissive fetish. This stuff twists our brains and always progresses to darker and darker.
    The only way out is to choose the light.
     
  3. Yeah, I've had this conversation with people and their face drops: we find watching porn so exciting that it doesn't sink into our minds that we're watching other people have sex. If we were watching our neighbours have sex and MO to it, we'd be called a sicko but with porn – it's ok...

    This really explains a lot to me why PIED happens. Because the old porn was just magazines of naked women – so we visualised ourselves having sex with them. Now we're literally watching other people have sex – and then wonder why we can't get hard when they are looking at us, touching us, etc. – it feels weird.
     
  4. MrPriest

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    The truth, plain and simple.
     
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  5. B L A N K F A C A E

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    There is nothing more to it,the sad thing is that porn is here to stay its part of the norm nowadays but i have hope that we will wake up to the truth
     
  6. That's assuming all porn is the same. It's not. There's unlimited lesbian and solo content out there. Regardless, you're right about it being the epitome of cuck culture.
     
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  7. B L A N K F A C A E

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    Wether its the same or not man,you still watching other people having sex,Real people.Even if its solo you are still watching a stranger pleasuring herself whlie you jack off,its not that much better
     
  8. The analogy to alcohol is useful here. I've seen people destroy their lives with beer, whiskey, and even nice old lady's with wine. It was all alcohol, didn't matter the form it took.

    There is no porn that's somehow "better" then other porn, it's all porn. It will damage your brain and take you away from the man you were made you to be.
     
  9. In terms of fostering cuck culture, I personally think we'd be much worse off as a collective if all porn was as described in the OP. Everyone's entitled to an opinion.
     
  10. Exactly, when the crescendo of the clip is watching another man climax, it's only natural that eventually that's what you look forward to, and maybe even what you seek out - another man climaxing. It's so twisted but so obvious when you step back and look at it critically.
     
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  11. DevilMayFry

    DevilMayFry Fapstronaut

    You're not wrong. I considered this not long ago when I realised I'd get really turned on imagining my girlfriend getting fucked. It was basically watching her having sex, like watching a pornstar have sex.
     
  12. tawwab1

    tawwab1 Fapstronaut

    Exactly 100% right. We men need to wake up
     
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  13. lekasenor

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    Great analogy. So simple and true. Imagine the shame or weird feelings you would have then. But in this case, the brain gets overloaded with fantasies and too much material, it's as if we're torturing ourselves not pleasuring.
     
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  14. lekasenor

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    After I had some time away from it all and went back to it, it was so jarring and unpleasant to see the other guy climax. All the hardcore stuff felt so gross and too intense/damaging to my psyche. I was amazed that I normalized all that for so long. That's why I recommend people get 90 days under their belt before they slip. After 90 days or longer (longer the better), you will see it all in a new light. The light is what you want, not the normalized darkness.
     
  15. the300clean

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    I liked it, but it's not accurate.

    the porn actor is not a high status woman, and the guy who bang her isn't a high status guy.
     
  16. fisherman9009

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    Great post. Glad I quit pmo months ago. I just hope the term lingering side effects will soon go away
     
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  17. B L A N K F A C A E

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    Good for you on quitting,and yeah the effects will go away as long as you stay on course,that is watching porn
     

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