Does bisexuality confuse people?

You're over-thinking. What the statement is meant to say is this: if you're into girls, you still won't be into ugly girls. Likewise if you're into men, you still won't be into ugly men. What we're getting at here is men have less inclination to try to look attractive in the first place, and as a result it's tough to really gauge your "preference" as a bisexual man.

So, I'm bisexual, but I find women catch my eye more often than men do. Does that mean I prefer women? It's tough to say. I mean when thinking about "what do I like" I go back to my memories of times I saw people who I thought were attractive... and there are more women out there making an effort at looking sexy than there are men making any effort at all to even bother cleaning themselves up. A well-dressed, reasonably-fit man is a rare thing. A man showing as much skin as most women do in an average outfit is even rarer.

But naked and fit... well at that point I think I really am 50/50... but now in this moment it's a tough call unless I do some, uh, "research" and... well I can't be looking at porn right now...