OnlyFans is highly addictive, don’t do it

Hey guys, many of you probably already know this, but this revelation is still fairly new to me. Earlier this year on Valentine’s Day, an Instagram model who has an OnlyFans Page was running a valentines discount on her OF memberships and since I was alone and a little depressed about it, I bought a membership. I quickly realized that’s just how they draw you in because almost all of her explicit OF posts required additional payment to unlock and view. I ended up paying the additional money for one of them before letting my membership expire after that first month.


Now earlier this week, I slipped up and went on one of those amateur couples subreddits and found two users that stood out to me and I noticed that they had OF pages, I also saw that they were running membership discounts for $3 a month. I ended up subscribing to both of them and my relapse has been out of control ever since. I think that OF is so addictive because the girls will actually DM you in order to build a rapport and if you’re a guy like me and never get the chance to talk to any girls, you feel like its better than nothing even though you know that they’re only talking to you because you’re paying them. I also noticed that they use the rapport they build with you as a way to persuade you to pay extra to unlock their paid posts, and I ended up paying $6 for one of them.


But the second girl I subscribed to is worse because her policy is that she doesn’t lock posts for additional payment, everything is included with your membership price. As I’ve also said in another post on here, I easily get addicted to hearing about girls’ sex lives and it stems from the fact that I feel like I’ll never have one of my own since I have no dating or sex experience at 29 and I feel like no girl will want anything to do with me because of that. So I’ve ended up trying live vicariously though girls’ sex lives since I’ll never have one of my own. That keeps me addicted, and I’m already tempted to ask this second girl if I can become her sexual advisor/sex coach as a way to become more involved in her sex life. This isn’t healthy and I think the core belief that I need to change is that there’s no way I’ll ever have a sex life of my own at this point.

 

Yeah I know and the bad part is that when you give in and buy an OF membership, you have access for a whole month. So it becomes harder to get back on track with NoFap.

 

Honestly I agree, ruthless rejection has gotta be better than this shit. I even got rejected by that second OF girl because I did what I said in my first post and asked her if I could be her sex coach/sexual advisor and her response was something like “uhh no, I don’t need someone to teach me how to have an orgasm haha” I think that actually helped because I became less interested in her page and haven’t been on OF as much since then. Then the other OF girl ghosted me after I didn’t pay to unlock her latest paid post. Dating apps are probably better use of my time and money because at least that gives you the possibility to spend time with a girl in person and possibly hook up with her or start a relationship.

 

I know exactly how that is with cam girls, I spent $116 on a private cam show from an amateur couple on a cam site a few months ago. I felt like shit after doing that. I think more than half of it stems from porn because whenever I have a clean streak going, the negative thoughts become a lot weaker and I start craving sex a lot more. But when I relapse, I start thinking that this is the best I can do anyway and no girl is gonna want to be a 29 year old guy’s first girlfriend, so what’s the point because its too late for it to ever get better anyway. I don’t have that drive either, I’ve always been afraid that I’m gonna get rejected at every turn so I have never put myself out there. When I get far with nofap and I start craving real sex, I just start thinking that I won’t be getting laid anytime soon so I get frustrated and relapse. I definitely feel you in that one.

 

How do you do that? I would be willing to do that so that I don’t lose a month. I’m only $16 in the hole from this relapse so its not a huge loss to delete the account.

 

You’re smart for not paying money for things like this, wish I never did because it definitely snowballs once you do since you’ve already paid for it before in the past. I used to search endlessly for leaks too before I broke down and started paying. I know how that is with going cold turkey because eventually, I start craving sex so much that my sexual appetite pretty much becomes insatiable and I get frustrated because I know that I probably won’t be having sex with a girl anytime soon and that leads me to relapse.

Yeah both of the girls I subscribed to on OF have boyfriends and I ended up asking the second one if I can be her sex coach like I was tempted to do, she laughed at me and said that she doesn’t need me to teach her how to have an orgasm. It was pretty embarrassing to be honest, and they definitely do laugh at the suckers who pay to be on their OF pages.