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JOIN THE 90 DAY REBOOT PROGRAM HERE!! (CHECKED DAILY AND HOSTED BY Real_OGH)

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Real_OGH, Sep 18, 2015.

when does everyone want to start the reboot?

  1. 21th September

  2. 1th October

  3. ASAP

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  1. elpamfael

    elpamfael Fapstronaut

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    I'm in, on day 8 now, will have reached 90 days on new years eve, longest streak ever was two weeks, but feel more determined now than ever! C'mon lets do this, share tips and tricks! I made a 90 day checkoff calender that i keep in my wallet, this way I have a physical item that I have to stay loyal to, making the abstract concrete, is working so far, love ticking off a box every day! Plus imagineing how I'll feel on new years eve when i'll have reached 90 days, I'll have so much to celebrate!
     
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  2. LEGENDARY

    LEGENDARY Fapstronaut

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    day 6
    full of energy
     
  3. kenpachi79

    kenpachi79 Fapstronaut

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    Day 0 for me, i feel so weak and ashamed and my life is so worthless because of porn. I went on a two week streak then relapsed and felt so guilty i binged until now. Now i want to try again and go even longer.
     
  4. hey man, ride that positive second part and drop the guilt and shame like a hot coal! worked for me. I realized part of what was energizing the addictive cycle was shame--it was part of the addiction, I was addicted to feeling guilty about my pmo addiction! when I dropped that, and substituted unconditional love for myself (no matter what, goddammit!), pmo's hold on me weakened considerably. I had taken a link out the chain, altered the pathway in my brain slightly that had been carved in there over so many years and decades.

    and just the fact that we're on NF harkens a change, finally. so, lots to excited about here!

    day 9 with no PM here. nice long streak--certainly the longest i've had in a good while. learning to appreciate all the various feelings of real life again, toothy, painful, relaxing, bright, scary, playful, etc. like the various colors of a mad rainbow, or a menagerie of exquisite sculptures, many of which i used to avoid looking at directly (talking about my inner emotional world now) and go to PMO instead. now just appreciating the exquisiteness of it all, the vividness of it all, the REALNESS of it all.

    we're on our way, y'all!
     
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  5. theDoctorSmith

    theDoctorSmith Fapstronaut

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    Today's Check-in

    Another hectic day at work. I have a long day at work tomorrow and some travelling to do. Boss said things will lighten up a little from the 15th. I could use the extra time. I have two other internships on my plate right now.

    My check-ins are turning more and more into my life journey rather than my troubles with PMO. But I can't really help it. The only time I think about PMO is when I get bored at work and log on to NoFap. Hardly thinking about masturbation and never about porn.
     
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  6. Nadeem786

    Nadeem786 Fapstronaut

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    I don't man, i think the solution depends on the person, if you know yourself very well you will know how to fix this
     
  7. proxerproxer

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    I belive awarness of thoughts is the answer.
     
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  8. magzzz

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  9. Dargi

    Dargi Fapstronaut

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    day 6 for me.
    From time to time i'm getting thoughts like hay you don't feel any difference, you don't get any urges and even sexy pictures don't make you want to m now, so looks like you are cured just 1 week and that is it. So if it's so simple you can stop any time if you want it, like when you will find a girl you will stop rather quickly... So lets m as usual ...

    Yeh crazy chain of thought i know, like if you can m or not m why the hell you will choose to m? So angel on my shoulder has better logic than devil which is wispering this thoughts. Good for me :)

    And i also had strange dream tonight, like i relapsed, but then i wake up and understood with relief that it was just a dream.
     
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  10. Real_OGH

    Real_OGH Fapstronaut

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    Its hard but we gotta stay strong guys... fight on till the end..
     
  11. proxerproxer

    proxerproxer Fapstronaut

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    OMG:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
    All of sudden i thought of a sexy actress.Just that thought gave me an erection...Increased my mood...
    But still staying strong....:):):):):)
     
  12. LEGENDARY

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  13. Nadeem786

    Nadeem786 Fapstronaut

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    It could be, i think it's deeper than that. For example, there are people who are addcted to masturbation because they've experienced a broken heart a lot, and they're desperate for girls's attention so they watch porn so they get that. So it's really how you deal with your weaknesses i think
     
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  14. volt2187

    volt2187 Guest

    Alright, after relapsing on the morning of 10/5, I decided that's it. I need to start taking this serious, because the only way it's going to come to an end is if I, ME, and no one else put's an end to it. I have to realize it's the root of all my problems and that I'm too old for this childish act. I'm not 13 anymore (not saying it's okay to do at that or any age, but it's always come off as a childish act to me, ie something MEN don't do), time to put on my big boy pants and put an end to this debilitating disease.

    I've actually got my longest streak ever going, and every time the thought of doing it comes up in my mind I tell myself how miserable and shitty I would feel if I had to reset my counter again. The urges are strong, but I just have to learn to ignore them. I've found that cognitive restructuring with positive, uplifting thoughts and just randomly smiling, even when by myself is helping a lot with my confidence and my ability to get past this. Laughing about the memories of doing it in the past seems to help too, because now I can look at it and think wow, that was really ridiculous and I could have used a good ass kicking back then! lol
     
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  15. Jimmy F. Pearson

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    Count me in. I want to do 90 days really bad. This is only day 2 for me right now. And I feel like shit. Like, no point to even get out of bed. Low dopamine I guess.

    How do I get one of these goals/counters I see below your posts?
     
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  16. theDoctorSmith

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    daily check-in

    A little late for my daily check-in. I just got back from a 20 hour shift on a Saturday. Have to go back in 4 hours. Had a few urges early in the day. Nothing after lunch cause I was swamped. Kinda like doing this cause I'm so tired by the end of the day there's nothing to do but sleep, or in this case post on NoFap.

    How's it going with you guys?
     
  17. Smoky_Jack

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    Hey, pretty new to this site but i'd like to join this but I cant see anywhere to join? Can any one help? :)
     
  18. blazor28

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    don't give in guys keep going if u cannot run then walk if u cannot walk then crawl but keep moving forward we will definitely leave this habbit for sure.
     
  19. M_U3

    M_U3 Fapstronaut

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    Second Hour..
    back again after completing my first day in sha'a allah
     
  20. Musta

    Musta Fapstronaut

    You just did :) there is no joining button or something like that. We all are committed to this 90 day challenge and we post our updates here. Welcome to Nofap bro.
     

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