Weird Thing Women Do in a Group

Whats your secret man? I want that!

 

22 months! Amazing.

While on SR, did it ever become awkward dealing with the opposite sex? For example, I am 8 months in, and I'm also trying to get my mind/spirit right, and I may be coming across as "too cold" toward certain women who show attraction to me. Keep in mind, they show coy attraction, subtle attraction, not clear, coherent messages. And I've been so focussed on trying to get myself right, bumbling at times, that I may seem "too cold."

 

This echoes my experience as well -- people who know me will talk with me, but the general public straight up reacts the way you describe: no acknowledgement, eye contact or engagement, though it's obvious it's being done on purpose. My theory is that SR connects you to truth, and many people are pretty far from existing in truth and therefore don't want to face it...

I look forward to looking at the thread you mentioned you'll open up. Very much looking forward to it.

- W4F

 

Very interesting. It's said women are the gatekeepers and choosers of partners for the most part. And they also spend more time than us forming their social skills which become more advanced than ours on average I believe.

Between the group interactions and subtle body language, they may be sensing which one gets along with you the most without anything coming across as an obvious signal at the time.

I can't remember where I read or heard this... but I think women are on average better at communicating with multiple people at the same time than men. Again, this might be hard to notice if it's body language and all that. Either way, sounds like great motivation for the lifestyle!

 

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Congratulations for your 22 months!

I do like the answers that other members gave on this thread. But, regarding the idea that semen rentention might have something to do with it, well, I think it strongly have something to do with it. It's energy related.

You release a vibratory and energetic field. It's being felt, especially unconsciously, by the girl you are interested in and the other ones that left. So yeah, the girl you have a connection with will stay and the others that the connection is not as strong or non-existent will leave.

 

They know. Even if you are giving them all equal attention as best you can, they can kind of sense energy between you and whoever you're interested in. Also she might be (consciously or unconsciously) sending signals to get them out. They also might be taking visual cues, sort of guessing at who you fit best with. Congrats! haha

And nice work on the sobriety/monk mode! I'm about 10 months in myself and my life is way better. It's still tough, but it's way better.