Long Term SR Will Isolate You

Men in your age are usually charming in women's perspective but id like to ask a few questions:

What was your condition before sr generally and also in terms of social interactions?

Did you do better socially before sr?

Many longterm retainers have reported feelings of intimidation being awoked in people

 

They could be intimidated by you.

 

I can attest that long sexual retention does make changes to how you are perceived, but my opinion is that it's more of an amplifier.

In periods where I have done long SR and at the same time had everything going for me with a positive outlook, I could feel this magnet effect with the ladies and it did me good. At other times where I was frustrated and did long SR it seems to give the vibes you are describing.

IMO it's not just SR, it's your whole attitude type of thing. And with all honesty I wouldn't care much about how people perceive me as long as I am not doing marketing or sales for a living.

 

It’s all about supply and demand. Women like guys who have options.

If you are not afraid of rejection and be ok getting rejected 100% of the time then you have the confidence to get women. Always be self improvement tho.

 

6 feet tall? Bro, you’re practically a Chad. I think the negative might be that you may be giving off an Autistic “spergy” vibe towards women.

 

What’s that?

 

Congratulatioms on your progress. 2 years, that indeed is remarkable.

What you're describing feels strange, it is so very much different from the usual narrative and all those woman attraction stories. I wonder what is behind that experience of yours.

 

a Chad is someone who is a very good looking man who pulls the ladies.

 

and, a "Chad" have specific physical traits that women desire the most.
If you tick most of those boxes you're definitely a Chad. Most men aren't.

 

I know that and there is also Giga Chad and Tyrone. What is this autistic spergy?

 

I know the terms but what’s a autistic spergy?

 

Your body is low on testosterone, hence you aren't getting sexual attention from females. Also, you can't expect to have same libido in the age you at, compared to how you could in your 30's.

Also, older men do better in retention as compared tp guys who are in their adulthood. Sexual libido is at its greatest in a 30 yr old adult, but as men age their Testosterone levels drop thereby their sexual libido, which is a big reason for all these successes of older men making years and decades of nofap success.

Nofap is a game that favours guys with low T levels heavily as compared to those who have higher levels. A 30 yr old guy who has 'healthy' T levels will he find frequenting ejaculations as necessity as compared to older and even some very young men.