what is the reason your doing nofap?

I want to wean myself off of PIED and fetishes and to be more attracted to the average guy.

 

Its sick and wrong to me for both moral and ethical reasons. Also a huge waste of time.

It's a false sense of comfort that lets one "escape" the real world for a brief moment, but only leaves you feeling dejected and guilty in it's wake.


In a broader sense, it's wrong for me to expect a future girlfriend or wife to be the person I would like them to be, when I can't be the person I want myself to be, nor can I be the person they should expect me to be. It's one of the core problems in my life and affects many other elements of my life.

 

To change my life and myself physically and mentally, also to give myself a bigger purpose and a sense of direction.

 

1. I want my penis to work again
2. I don't want my sexual habits to be hijacked by corporations and extreme fetishes that hardly any future partner would even think to participate in.
3. I don't want to give my time on Earth to people who think I'm a loser because I consume the degenerate content they profit from. (Adult stars/twitch people/etc hate their fans...at least escorts have to provide a tangible experience)
4. I don't want to be an addict.

 

For bettering myself and that is all it should be.

 

I'm doing it to improve my relationship

 

To master the art of love, love people, men, women, animals, the nature, God, me, all things. I want more deep connections, and be more human in my actions, and PMO destroys my humanism. I want to respect women and see them with diginity

 

To save my life energy and channel it onto important things, and to raise testosterone and have better gains in lifting weights(already happened, i was quite surprised what is possible once you rest your bro)

 

To be the husband my wife deserves.

 

To overcome my fears and my desires.

 

In my case, its because life gets unnecessarily brutal if I'm cooming.

The unwanted opportunistic positive attention is annoying, sometimes overwhelming, but the sheer cruelty these demonic degenerates are capable of FORCE my hand in a way. And it forces my hand away from any kind of sexual activity, much less self induced.

Plus ive noticed it makes me bigger as a (general) athlete

 

To improve myself and to become better person.

 

Emotional health reasons first. Spiritual ones secondly. I'm not religious, but I read a lot of books related. The Vedas, the Bible, Gnostic gospels, Buddhist Sutras, Blavatsky, etc. MO energetically vampirizes not only us, but also those we fap for, in my case women. Plus I feel simply better being in control.

 

I want to grow in my faith/ have a healthier mind and I know that constantly chasing this rush, among other's is hindering my progress. I see so many platforms today that are available to exploit women (and some men) and I no longer wish to be part of the demand.

 

I'm tired of being controlled by sexual desire.

 

My wife is hurting and my ignoring her sexuality for years has hurt her and I want to end that.

 

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honestly to have a normal life at this point porn and my other bad habits completely effected my life in a negative way

 

It has robbed me of half my life. Now more than ever, I'm quitting because I've unwillingly turned into a grumpy asshole (the scary uncle) and it has molded me into a whiny incel because I'm a 34 year old virgin and it makes me think women are obligated to have sex with me.

Yes, I feel that I let my life escape me and I should've had sex years ago, and it feels like my walls are closing in. I know it's PMO doing this to me

 

Turn it around now. You can do it. Lots of your life left to enjoy and live and love.

 

Because I'm tired of feeling like shit.