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Roleplay and sexting but in a strange way

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Ronaldeutsch, Feb 7, 2023.

  1. Ronaldeutsch

    Ronaldeutsch Fapstronaut

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    I dont know how to explain this but I have been doing this from some years onn and off. It started with when I created a fake instagram account just to mess with my friends and stuff but then, I started getting too much attention from guys and I discovered that a guy can almost do everything for me. I'm greatly disturbed by this but I have to confess. I used to do sexting with MEN (even though I'm straight) where I roleplayed the girl of whom I created the fake account and I used to download nude images from reddit which looked very real and I would send them to others making them believe it was me and I was getting so good at this many of them couldnt tell if I was a fake account. And now, I am greatly ashamed. I still do this kind of stuff. I dont use instagram now but other websites that allow random chatting. I want to know that why am I being sexually aroused by this and WHY am I jerking off to this. PLUS I roleplay myself where I humiliate myself (fake girl) and take the pleasure out of it. I know this must have been very disturbing to read. But please dont judge. I want to understand this, and I want to quit this. HELP ME!
     
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  2. Meshuga

    Meshuga Fapstronaut

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    I’ve heard worse.

    I don’t know exactly why you, or anyone else does this, but it’s common. Guys are even relatively good at it, because they know exactly what to say to get another guy excited. When encountering a hyper sexual female online, odds are good it’s a catfish.

    Role play like this basically counts as porn and you quit the same way as porn. Realize cognitively that’s you’ve over prioritized sex. Replace the dopamine, replace the time, replace the thoughts, identify the triggers, and expect to slip on the learning curve. Depending on how long you’ve been addicted and the intensity of your other psychological hurdles, it could take a while to figure it out. But hang in there, you can make it work.
     
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  3. Ronaldeutsch

    Ronaldeutsch Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man!
     
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  4. I too did this exact same thing for several years, I did it on a daily basis and it took its toll on me. I also occasionally would be the guy who actively would seek out other men online who were willing to roleplay as a female. I have sense fixed this fetish and it no longer is a problem in my life. Just keep abstaining from PMO and staying clean and the addiction will fade over time.

    If your interested in an accountability partner then shoot me a direct message.
     
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