Likes to have Pain during Sex

Yes. Are you on SR?

 

Semen Retention?

 

Can you have sex without ejaculation?

 

What is your goal?

 

Do you masturbate?

 

Welp sounds like you have a submissive gf lol

 

SR?

 

I'll give you a straight answer on what my opinion is and not inflict endless questions on you.

Whatever two people do together that's consensual is fine. If you are ok with it and she is ok with it and you both enjoy it, then why not?

If you are here, like most of us are, because you are a sex addict then you need to sit with yourself and think about how you are going to beat or control your addictive behavior. When you engage in these sexual behaviors, how do you feel afterwards? Do you feel the chaser effect? IE you need to PMO or MO almost immediately afterwards? If the answer to that question is yes, then you may need to go no PMO for a bit to clear your head.

There is only so much we can advise you on because we don't know you or your exact situation. All we can say is how you feel this may or may not be feeding addictive behavior. Only you know yourself, but be honest with yourself too. We like to lie to ourselves when we are in the throes of addiction.

Good luck.

 

How many sessions is considered a sex addict?

 

Addiction is more of how you feel and your behaviour than how many times you go at it. If you answer yes to one or more of the below questions you may have a problem with sexual addiction.

Do you feel a lack of satisfaction afterwards and crave more?

Do you treat your partner as just a vehicle for sexual gratification?

Do you disregard how she feels or what she wants?

Do you allow sex and thoughts of sex to negatively affect your day to day life?

Hope this helps.

 

I don't see it as a problematic behaviour. If any of the questions in my comment that you quoted apply, well it could be a problem then.

Emotions can still be felt and shared between partners when pain is introduced to sex. Not everyone experiences the same things the same way. A lot that like pain generally wouldn't just do it with anybody, this is something that is best done with someone they trust a lot, so in my opinion it wouldn't be an indication of lack of love.