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Holiday date almost gone wrong!

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by young Dale Dan Tony, May 17, 2023.

  1. young Dale Dan Tony

    young Dale Dan Tony Fapstronaut

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    I just really need 2 get this off my chest:

    I was on holiday in Greece with my mom, sister and her boyfriend. Im trying to date girls but its hard lately..ive been single now for almost 1 year and it sucks, I have recovered from PIED and rewired from porn far enough that Im super horny most of the days.
    Now we where going out at some bars and Ive met some girls from germany. 1 of them gave their contact details but she is not replying..

    *Trigger warning*

    So im swiping on several dating apps with no luck with suddenly a match with a girl with unclear pics of her face and some pics of her ass.. I matched and she told me she is looking for a one night stand. Sounds good to me, we talked more and suddenly she told me she is a trans woman and asked for my d*ck pics.. Im disgusted but also interested... (I used to watch trans porn but I rewired far that I just realised it are men with boobs, Im 100% attracted to woman) anyway she told me she is a slave and will do crazy things to me. My mind told me dont do it but the temptation is big. So I have send my D pics (first time ever..) to her, she said ok lets meet, my heart is racing with nervous feelings.

    Anyway just some hours before we where supposed to meet, she told me she is a crossdresser and wants to meet in the dark only, so she is not even a trans woman but a fucking man!
    This was the bottom for me, I respectfully declined the offer and went to sleep.

    Next day I was so happy that I didnt meet up, but it also got me thinking what if I met with him and I actually liked it? Fuck no I dont want to be faggot, I like woman only but this porn have created a wild fantasy in my mind. I only touched woman in my life and I like to keep it that way.

    Conslusion?
    I think ive became a bit desperate that I couldnt find any woman and really wanted a human touch. I almost crossed a line that I dont want to cross
     
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  2. Maybe take your mind more seriously next time?
     
  3. Dovahkin101

    Dovahkin101 Fapstronaut

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    Pahahahaha! Take it from a virgin that's never had a girlfriend ever, I don't see it as much of a problem to be alone for a year, in my case much longer than that. I get to avoid situations like the one you got in. Your desperation is your addicted mind talking, and look where it almost lead you. If you have the ability to get a girlfriend then work on that in a positive way, and drop the dating apps. They're filled with traps (literally) and can be a trigger for pmo.
     
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  4. young Dale Dan Tony

    young Dale Dan Tony Fapstronaut

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    Totally agree man, indeed I should take my mind more seriously.

    Respect to you man, dating apps indeed suck really hard. But my sister and her husband also met on tinder and have married, the living proof that it can actually work haha

    But yeah, its better to go out in the wild and approach people, dating apps are full of triggers. It takes alot of balls and confidence to approach girls in real life
     
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  5. Dovahkin101

    Dovahkin101 Fapstronaut

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    It can work. I just don't see it as the best way to get a relationship, and I think that dating apps degrades the value of sex. That and as you mentioned how triggering it can be for a porn addicted person.
     
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