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1st week

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Vezo93, Mar 8, 2014.

  1. Vezo93

    Vezo93 Fapstronaut

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    Hey fapstronauts!

    I'm fairly new and I've just completed a week and a half with no porn and a week with no masturbation, so I thought I'd post my experience so far...

    The most I've ever gone without PMO since I started in 2005 is 2 weeks, when I was on a family holiday, but I feel confident I can smash that record and go fap-free for the whole of lent (I hope). I'm going to try to give up porn for life and masturbate only occasionally from Easter onwards :)

    I'd gotten to the point of PMO-ing several times a day and realised that I had become addicted. Even no longer wanting to find or seduce a girl, as I was satisfied with my online fix. After researching a bit about the harmful effects of PMO I came across this site and decided to give the challenge a go.

    I usually used my phone to watch porn, so for others out there like me, what I've found really useful was to download the Norton Family app, which you can use to block all pornographic websites and even specific ones you want to avoid. Obviously, in a moment of weakness one could log in and unblock the porn, but I've found the mere reminder the app gives me of what I want to achieve has helped me. You also receive an email basically telling you off from Norton Family, alerting you that you tried to watch porn and there is the possibility of letting a friend change your password and keep it secret, to stop you from being able to disbale the app.

    Effects I've noticed so far include: more energy, more desire to socialise with people, more enjoyable sex dreams that I remember and a greater appreciation for everything about females and their bodies. One of my friends also noted a deepening of my voice, perhaps from increased testosterone production? I read a study that showed testosterone production continues to rise then level off after a week of no PMO. This may also help me in the gym, as I am quite a dedicated, bodybuilding fanatic.

    Would love to hear other people's views and benefits they've noticed so far.

    Vezo
     
  2. CrazyGopher

    CrazyGopher Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, congrats on your first week.

    Did you check out this PDF? It's like 100 pages of benefits guys experienced.
     
  3. mac92

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    Congratulations, Vezo93! Glad to hear of your progress with nofap :D

    I will certainly look into the Norton app you mentioned! A couple things I use are: Open DNS (free) and the parental controls on iOS7 (for apple users, obviously). Open DNS will block just about every single porn site by default, with the option of manually adding other sites to the blocked list.

    The Apple parental controls are password accessible, and can be different than a lock screen password. So if you ever need that extra safeguard, having a close friend set the password for you will only make it so you cannot access websites (but still be able to download apps, etc)

    Anyway, congrats again! Not sure if you have any Apple products, but figured I would share what I knew just in case.

    Onward and upward!
     
  4. Vezo93

    Vezo93 Fapstronaut

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    @CrazyGopher thanks for the pdf, really interesting and helpful!
     
  5. Vezo93

    Vezo93 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the support! I don't actually own apple products... the norton app does seem to block all porn sites too, but I specifically blocked my old favourites just as an extra fail safe mechanism. I'm really enjoying the new lifestyle, keep with it!
     
  6. Vezo93

    Vezo93 Fapstronaut

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    Urges are pretty strong now when I'm alone. I'm almost at the 2 week mark, which was my all time record, from the tim I stopped on a family holiday a few years ago... I'm more determined than ever to see this through now after reading lots of success stories and yourbrainonporn articles. Urges are strong partly due to the fact I'm already getting more female attention... I've been texting and sending pictures to a stunning girl who wants to date me. This makes me excited about the future; I want to reboot my brain before we take things too seriously, but I don't want to lose my chance with her either...
     
  7. Hiroki

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    Sounds like alot is going on for you. Being alone is the riskiest situation for me. I think it should be for most of us. It's when I start hearing the whispers of the sirens, to come and play. For me, I need to be organized with my daily schedule and make plans, so I am not sitting home alone for copious amounts of time. When I do spend time alone I go outside, to parks and stuff, ride my bike to the island, and stay active. Making a habit of frequently spending time passively alone is the worst thing I could do.

    Btw, it's good to feel excited to find a female you think is gorgeous be interested in you. But it seems you are afraid of possibly losing 'your chance with her'. Word of advice, when you develop yourself to a certain point, and come to understand the ways of women, she is never a 'great catch', so it doesn't matter if she rejects you or not. YOU ARE THE GREAT CATCH. So she should be concerned about losing her chance with you.

    The Book of Pook
     
  8. Thetimehascome

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    hey man, this is a great decision you have made. welcome to the team. you are so not alone in the battle against pmo (Porn masturbation orgasm) as you can you see. This fact alone is keeping me in line. I am a sports guy, i have been playing sports all my life. if i give in to pmo im letting my team down (you guys/girls) and even more so my self. get educated, watch the videos about the dopamine rush of porn and how it traps you. after understanding the science behind it (true or not) it will only help you go to battle. "Hold stronggggg im battle tested" rob baily and the hustle standard. welcome brother
     
  9. Vezo93

    Vezo93 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, thanks for the support.
    I'm also a very sporty person, so I can see where you're coming from, not wanting to let the team down on this site. I want to be one of the strong guys that make it on their first attempt at rebooting, to set a good example and not waste time... I really want to heal.

    I want to share my first experience of this actually working. I've often felt my sex drive for porn was strong, but never for real girls. That is to say I've turned down many opportunities for sex and not taking my chances with other girls in favour of going hom to PMO, which is and comfortable. I was therefore surprised and excited to find that when I went out to celebrate the end of term last night, I became fully erect simply by kissing a girl in the club. That has not happened to me for years, so it was a good sign that I'm already starting to view real girls and not porn as the focus of my sexual energy.
     
    Last edited: Mar 15, 2014

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