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Single but not lonely.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Ronaldeutsch, May 20, 2023.

  1. Ha! I had $10 in paypal someone owed me for cab fare, so I put it into bitcoin.

    It was worth $2 last month...
     
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  2. Legacy of Lost Soul

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    Thats a lie, because even if u bought the exact top at 69k which you did NOT, its at 30k now (and thats the price it holds for a month already) so you would have more than 2usd. Also, if u DCA from top till now, u already in plus. You just have no clue, so yes, in that case, put your fiat in a bank. Its better for u.

    Also, investments are for a longer time frame than months. ANYONE who bought bitcoin in last 10+ years and held it, is in plus. Because its the fastest growing asset in a world. If u loose money on that, rethink your strategy
     
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  3. No Sir, I'm telling you the truth. I just made up the dates, I don't really remember exactly when I bought nor when I checked.

    But the part about buying $10 and when I saw it was about $2, that was the truth.

    Bitcoin isn't a real investment, not like equities. I was just toying with it since I had
    the $10 in paypal.

    Ok, now the facts are out, is it better now?
     
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  4. rachitmunjal

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    Being single means finding happiness in yourself and to have a good relation with your partner inner peace is must or it will affect your, your partner and your children's mental health. Have a smile and spread happiness!
     
  5. Yeah, love this! Loneliness is just a product of a lack of self-improvement.
     
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  6. Single but not lonely has accurately described me for a very long time. A few years ago, at college, I pursued a romantic relationship with a colleague of mine but she rejected me. Needless to say, that rejection was painful, but it wasn't a bad thing in retrospect. Since then, I haven't pursued any sort of romantic relationship because I've come to realize that happiness is derived mostly from what I have, and not from what I want. A good friend of mine is always trying to convince me by saying, "Why don't you get a girlfriend? I have a friend who thinks you're cute." Another colleague confessed her feelings for me, and another invited me to "hang out". I've consistently rejected such offers because my long term goals in life do not involve a romantic partner. I cannot imagine myself being involved in a romantic relationship at this stage in my life. I want to be in a better place geographically, financially, physically, mentally, spiritually, and professionally. I'm committed to improving myself and making the most of what life has given me in spite of all the difficulties I may encounter.
     
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  7. I'm feeling like that lately, in the last two sentences. I was married, then divorced in 2017. Since then, it has been so weird to try to date! But part of the problem was that I didn't want it. Not like when I was young. Not enough to go out and work for it, like a dog.

    Maybe you have noticed how drama-free that life is without women?
     
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  8. Ronaldeutsch

    Ronaldeutsch Fapstronaut

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    I feel the same, that I dont want someone in my life right now because I'm wrecked myself. I have to build myself first. But then, there comes the night, where I have nothing to do, no one to talk to. My phone has no notifications, I feel unwanted, I feel like a nobody. I know that I have defined my self-worth by number of replies I get on my story, But I dont know how to think clear. How to detach myself from all that, because the thing that gives pain also gives me pleasure. When my phone is crowded with messages, I like that, who doesnt? But pain is far greater than the pleasure. I dont know what to do man.
     
  9. If you are on your own, it's best to either be resting or doing something
    to build up your life.

    Not staring into a smart phone, on social media, hoping someone will text you.

    Get on your mission, brother!
     
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  10. FormerLeatherneck

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  11. You are aware that there are people who hold you in high regard and enjoy your company regardless of how many notifications, messages, and replies you get on your story, aren't you? The moment you learn to detach your sense of self esteem and self worth from trivialities such as these, I'm sure you will be one step closer to achieving your true potential. It won't be easy, but you have in these forums and in your personal life all the support you could possibly need.
     
  12. rachitmunjal

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    You will surely succeed in you life. Praying for you!
     
  13. I appreciate your kind words, good sir. For you, I wish nothing but the best that life has to offer.
     
  14. Ronaldeutsch

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    how do i detach myself from it? I think that I can do it only if I find a greater purpose. Because then only, these petty things will be meaningless to me. But what is the purpose I need to find and where would I find it?
     
  15. Only you could answer that question. It would be inappropriate for me, a stranger on the internet, to make assumptions about your personal or professional life in an attempt to determine said purpose.
     
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  16. m--pornaddiction

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    I see. It may be nice for you to detach from the Internet if you wanna find a greater purpose.
    I agree with you that those (SNS or related things) bring pain & pleasure, but in general they have too huge impact on your mind to deeply think of "what you want truly".
     
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  17. You detach from it when you realize that you have value, you have skills, you
    have intelligence, you have enormous capacity, probably more potential than
    you could fulfill in a lifetime.

    And if that is true, which it is, then you invest in it.

    You will learn who you are, your self-esteem and what you can do during a 90 day hard mode reboot.
     
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