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Death grip cured after 31 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by WhiteKnightRising, Nov 8, 2015.

  1. WhiteKnightRising

    WhiteKnightRising Fapstronaut

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    Little background story is that I wouldn't say I was addicted to porn or masturbation however with every partner I have had I have felt little sensation and been unable to come. For years this got me so down as I could not enjoy sex and the thought of ever having kids would be really difficult potentially impossible.

    I researched on the web for stories of similar people and discovered I was potentially suffering from death grip. However cures for death grip were not mentioned really anywhere.

    A little over a month ago I discovered this amazing website Nofap. Being British I didn't really no what fap meant as we called masturbation other slang terms.
    However after reading the forums and success stories I discovered one I wasn't alone and two their are many other people like me.

    So 32 days ago I started Nofap to see what would happen. I said to myself I wouldn't stop until my next chance to have sex to see if not fapping would cure my death grip.

    Over the last 4 and a half weeks I experienced urges in the first fortnight but after that I really kinda flatlined.

    I started messaging a girl I went to school with and being in our late 20's now we hadn't seen each other for ages and decided to meet up in a club and have some drinks.

    We had a great night and she invited me back to her place. I thought this is it day 31 and I'm about to see if this has worked.

    Being heavily intoxicated with alcohol I did think am I going to be able to perform regardless of being able to come.

    The sex wasn't the best however I had a load more sensation and I came within minutes. The sense of worry lifted off my shoulders immediately. I had cumed and my death grip had been cured.

    This morning when I woke up in her bed we had hangover sex and I came again. I can't tell you how happy this has made me.

    I honestly think this website has changed my outlook on life and want to thank you all for your support on previous posts and hope you all conquer your problems.

    Death grip sufferers the cure is NoFap. It may take u longer or even shorter time than me but the happy days can be yours
     
  2. stealing_the_key

    stealing_the_key Fapstronaut

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    I love reading these concrete, tangible stories of success. Thank you for sharing! Great job!
     
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  3. Booster

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    Yes the deathgrip is hardly mentioned, but i agree it creates a load of issues in regards to PIED. well done pal
     
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  4. g2stop

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    I am really happy for you and it gives hope to the rest of us
     
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  5. WhiteKnightRising

    WhiteKnightRising Fapstronaut

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    Guys I maybe should of mentioned death grip more. So let me use this opportunity

    I have been masturbating since a young age. I have had 9 sexual partners but only one has been a consistent partner for a period of 8 months.

    I think due to this being single and not having frequent sex my sub concious mind or my grip is the only thing my body felt was right and a turn on.

    Giving up for a period I truly believe our penis or our sub conscious mind resets and doesn't feel it needs to rely on our grip during intercourse.

    From past sexual partners I could be humping for over 30 minutes going not feeling particularly hard and not feeling any real sensation.

    Saturday night and Sunday morning was a massive difference. I felt so much more sensation and I came within minutes. the sexual intercourse I experience wasn't the best but as people say the first time with a new partner is never amazing.

    I have not masturbated since then so take away the sex I had Saturday night and Sunday morning I have gone 35 days without masturbating.

    Day 32 I may of been cured of my death grip but above all it was Day 1 of a new chapter in my life
     
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  6. WhiteKnightRising

    WhiteKnightRising Fapstronaut

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    You can do it also my friend. Just think of the end goal
     
  7. programer

    programer Fapstronaut

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    Nice work. As you have seen, M is totally Death. Stay strong. This Demon of M shall soon leave us. Help us Lord.
     
  8. mercuree

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    Your story so closely mimics my own. I am glad to hear that success is possible! Do you think you would ever start masturbating again? I read a site that explained death grip and how to overcome it while using gentler pleasure and alternate methods of stimulation. What are your thoughts?
     

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