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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by soulrebel, Nov 17, 2015.

  1. Nov 17, 2015 #1
    soulrebel

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    Hey my names ahmed, I'm basically addicted to masturbation, I'm 18 so yeah. It's been going on since I was 12 and has been something I'd do routinely since then. But then I started feeling socially anxious by the time I reached age 15. And it was sooooo bad. I couldn't start a conversation with one person. Let alone keep One going. But I didn't know it had anything to do with masturbation so I kept doing it. I recently got into a relationship which ended up becoming long distance. I have tried Nofap before and I lasted 3 weeks, I swear these 3 weeks were the best 3 weeks of my life. I literally forgot what it meant to be shy. But my girlfriend would always do something to trigger masturabtion addiction and I masturabted so yeah I'm still in a relationship with her long distance still. But I don't know what to do about her
     
    soulrebel, Nov 17, 2015
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  2. Nov 18, 2015 #2
    Time2Stopnow

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    Hi Ahmed! To me it sounds as if you were quite motivated to get your life back on track. You already felt the advantages of NoFap after 3 weeks, imagine how a longer time can help. If your girlfriend triggers your addiction she's not doing anything good for you but I guess she doesn' know that, right? She probably thinks you like it. Maybe you should talk to her - hard step, I know (I took that road yesterday). But might be a solution. And she could became your supporter in this. I wish you best of luck!
     
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  3. Nov 18, 2015 #3
    g2stop

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    Its best to remove all triggers in the early stages
     
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  4. Nov 18, 2015 #4
    Time2Stopnow

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    You're completely right! I just figured that if's there's a chance to get his girlfriend on board for the reboot, there is no need to remove her;) At least it is worth giving it a try
     
    Time2Stopnow, Nov 18, 2015
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  5. Nov 18, 2015 #5
    bm12

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    For sure talk to the long distance girlfriend. If she supports you in recovery then I'd say she's a keeper. If she only hinders things then I think you need to move on. Honestly, your relationship has a small chance of survival anyways if you continue with this addiction in your life.

    Stat strong dude. Let's Sim for 4 weeks now.
     
    bm12, Nov 18, 2015
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  6. Nov 18, 2015 #6
    soulrebel

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    Thanks you guys for youre support and I have told her but at the sametime part of it is because of me, for some reason I don't stop myself and just let it happen
     
    soulrebel, Nov 18, 2015
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