Porn is evil

While I don't have any experience with this specifically to help you, something I am now striving for is to do this for more than just myself, because of the very reason you stated. PMOing is one of the most selfish things we can do. I understand that quitting is to better ourselves, but how unfair is it for women in our lives to be denied what they want (not just sex, but relationships, being loved, cared for) because we have trained our brains to seek stimulation through a computer screen.

I have faith in you LiftHeavy because you realize how debilitating it has become to you and you've seem to have the right mindset now, compared to a year ago.

 

I Copletely agree with you. P&M are evil and demonic in Nature. All I need not to practice Pmo again is to just think of the priceless things i've lost Pmo. I hsve been approached by Many Girls but The quickly flew away due to my Incredible wiredness.

I have since quitted Pmo for 7 Months after I knew about it's dangerlus effect. Keep fighting and don't end up like me, Loosing the Woman you Love. You can never forgive yourself.

 

Thank you very much.

 

Thanks for sharing Liftheavy! This is such an encouragement. In your weakness you help others to be strong by telling this story. Hope to see more of your post!

 

Dude, that is also the main reason I quit porn 22 days ago. I met this amazing girl, completely my type, and she was completely into me. We kicked it off and everything went great, and we did have sex, but I did notice that I was only about 50-60% hard what I usually am when I watched porn. I assumed it was simply nerves, so didn't think much of it. However the second time we went for it (in another night) is when I simply couldn't get it up beyond 20%-ish. This freaked me out since I couldn't explain it. Here I was with a girl I really liked, was turned on like hell, and we were passing a great time together but no reaction from my part.

That's when I noticed how detrimental porn had been on my brain and senses and took the decision to quit then and there.

Honestly I feel somewhat relieved to know this didn't only happen to me, but I'm much more glad that people like you and me can take this tough choice and not be alone on it. So keep going at it, and I hope things work real well with your girl! Cheers.

 

Yeah buddy!

 

Porn is really damaging, I've only started NoFap this year and boy I wish I knew about it years ago, two years ago or so, I too met a great girl, I lost an erection during amazing sex and couldn't complete the job, when I went home the next day, I received a few texts but it died a death.

NoFap to me is an all encompassing system, it can help men in so many ways, it can help "fix" us and I have found is one of the few communities, whereby Men are helping each other rather than competing against each other..... we've all felt the implications of inner self hatred when we've messed up during a sexual act with a beautiful women, but on one hand, at least we have communities like this website to help each other.

 

So glad to see more of you guys sharing your stories, it's really motivating as I begin a new chapter in my life. Porn really is evil and there is so much to living that porn takes away from us.