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I need a bro right now ...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Nouvel Homme, Dec 8, 2015.

  1. Dec 8, 2015 #1
    Nouvel Homme

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    Things were going well these last three months - I thought that I had all but defeated my addiction to chat rooms. But then over the last couple of weeks I have been back in, back to CR-M-O, if you like.

    Last night's episode has left me feeling utterly shit. A positive outlook has turned to negativity. Hopes to fear. Confidence to anxiety. Masculinity to pathetic loser status. Energy to nothing.

    I'm so angry with myself and feel like a total failure. I need to know how and if I can get back on track?
     
    Nouvel Homme, Dec 8, 2015
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  2. Dec 8, 2015 #2
    monkotto

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    start a new journey. right now. relapsing is a part of this process - i had many.
    you are not a loser - you are a person who cant control his sexual desire or compulsion.
    believe me you are not alone here.
    you are on the track! just go on. good luck.
     
    monkotto, Dec 8, 2015
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  3. Dec 8, 2015 #3
    adam1992

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    It's never to late to start over again bro. Good luck and Stay strong
     
    adam1992, Dec 8, 2015
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  4. Dec 8, 2015 #4
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    Feel you bro. I feel doubts from time to time. sometimes I feel that i don't need to continue rebooting anymore and i am healed, sometimes i just want to orgasm too much, then test myself, sometimes i am just to afraid of PE after rebooting too much, but once i turn back, every time i can't control myself anymore, every time i resume my prerebooting state in less than a week and feel like a shit. But that's not an excuse to quit. And you must understand, that successful people choose long term benefits before short ones that you can get right now. That is the key. And constant searching for new info, new ways to deal with your problems.
     
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  5. Dec 8, 2015 #5
    hopefulbrain

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    What do you do? The same thing you would do if you tried to climb a mountain and fell back to the ground. You get up and start climbing again from the bottom up. This is of course assuming you are a cartoon and survive falling off a mountain but hey analogies..

    Point is you just try again.
     
    hopefulbrain, Dec 8, 2015
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