I cant get my eyes off women

Maybe with porn addiction you have learnt to objectify women?

 

Oh
Even I've had this problem. The times I went more than a week, I started to objectify girls a lot.
I was pretty much out of control.

 

I'm still facing this issue... It's really hard. I find keeping active or distract ice helps.

 

Maybe I'm against the stream here, but I think looking at woman sexually is perfectly normal and part of a healthy sexuality. Women's body is pleasant to the male eyes and desiring it should not be considered wrong per se. I think there's too much obsession with the "objectifying" of women, as if the natural sexual drive of men was somehow morally wrong (I think I know where this is coming from)

Anyway, I think that the fact that you are experiencing this precisely when doing NoFap is a good sign. Porn reduces your appetites for real women, for real experiences, for real sex, otherwise you are, as you say, indifferent. Work on your self-control but please don't feel guilty for what is natural and healthy.

 

I think you just acknowledge the desire and move on.. for me the goal is to not need a woman whether I want one or not is another matter.

 

because you are not gay??

Its not bad to looking at woman but if you find some girl really attractive you have to talk to her, instead of fapping to your computer

 

I don't think its bad, just acknowledge it and move on. Try not to obsess and think about it too much. Otherwise you are feeding the addiction and the dopamine levels rise.