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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Siguror, Dec 22, 2015.

  1. Siguror

    Siguror New Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, I'm new here.

    My wife has gone away for 3 weeks now to visit family abroad.

    During this few weeks I realised that porn and masturbation were becoming a problem so decided to research. I came across this forum and decided to give it a shot.

    I am 7 days Into it now and personally I feel great, I seem more energetic and social. The only thing I have noticed is my lack of libido, I still have some sexual thoughts about my wife (nothing too porn like) but nothing downstairs seems to react.

    I'm not too worried about it as I have read this is a common thing. I am however a little concerned about when my wife comes back in a weeks time. I have already planned to tell her about what I'm going through and have full faith that she will be supportive. The thing is I really want to do things with her in the bedroom, just a little concerned that my libido won't play along. Has anyone experienced a lack of libido when alone but being fine when with a partner?

    Thank you all
     
  2. Caveat Emptor

    Caveat Emptor Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Yes. In fact, I'd think this is what you'd want, right? Sexual arousal that only arises when your wife is around.

    I wouldn't worry to much about it. Your libido will kick in the next you're intimate with your wife.
    Especially if you're refusing to jerk it. That little guy will so eager when he realizes he's about to get some lovin' again.
     
  3. Siguror

    Siguror New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the reply.

    Yes that's exactly what I want. I suffered from a little ED before and thought this might be the way forward to prevent that and get some feeling back that's not just my own hand.
     
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  4. jpaz212

    jpaz212 Fapstronaut

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    Hello Siguror! :) You should know that by being here and signing up, you've already won a small but significant battle. I don't have a partner but I have experienced a lack of libido (which is good when you don't have a partner). I am just making this comment to welcome you to the forum. I am sure someone who has more experience would comment. I don't abut the married folks, but as a single guy worrying about my libido doesn't help my reboot because in the end there is no legitimate or healthy outlet to release. So maybe you should think of it this way, it is good that you're experiencing intense urges that can lead to a relapse. But I still think my opinion is inadequate because of my experience. Welcome again man!
     

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