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A new member that relapsed! Dammit!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by The Writer, Dec 22, 2015.

  1. The Writer

    The Writer New Fapstronaut

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    Hey! Excited to be here. Started the 90 day reboot programme and after 15 days, i relapsed. Don't know what to do. I feel really weak. I was so proud of myself previously. Feel like shit.
     
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  2. RetroMike

    RetroMike Fapstronaut

    Dont be hard on yourself. We are human and make mistakes. Keep striving towards your 90 Day goal or any other goals you might have. You got this!

    *Yes its hard but the rewards for achieving your goals is far more greater than giving your energy to something thats draining your life*
     
  3. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Hey man! Two weeks is a great first try, believe me. You can still feel proud of that, rightly so. I expect that prior to this you were masturbating to porn quite a lot. So, that is a tremendous achievement. Keep positive, it will help your next go.
     
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  4. jpaz212

    jpaz212 Fapstronaut

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    Hello The writer! Don't get down on yourself. It doesn't help with your reboot. Just examine your relapse. WHat made you relapse? What can you do next time to avoid relapsing? Ask yourself these questions and search for the answers. Re-strategize so that it doesn't happen again in the future, share your new strategy on this forum and let people keep you accountable. Set daily goals and pursue them vigorously, these are somethings that have been helping me. Stay strong man! :)
     
  5. Ultra Zork

    Ultra Zork Fapstronaut

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    Not bad for first try. Just don't let your guard down
     
  6. zadvanceppa

    zadvanceppa Fapstronaut

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    Its hard to deny brain cravings for its perception of sex. Your brain thinks its getting action. When its over; you realize you didn't get any after all. I still find it hard at my certain triggering times or emotional states. I have spent alot of time here and Your brain on porn and others sites too. Fight it and you will be glad you did.
     
  7. jpd123

    jpd123 Fapstronaut

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    Just put one foot in front of the other!
     

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