When do you notice your attraction for real life girls come back?

Everyone is different but it has taken me four months of abstinence

 

For some people like britaxe, months. For me personally, two weeks or less. Could be age related (I'm 20) but within 1-2 weeks I feel incredible changes.

 

I feel real attraction now, instead of physical attraction i guess. I am starting to flirt with girls more and i even got a number! Hell, i use to be the most socially anxious guy on planet earth lol. Next step is to get more intimate with women (touching and maybe more

To your question: I guess i stopped objectyfying them withing a month

 

But my question to you is how long did you PMO for?

If the question was how long before girls are attracted to you my answer would be 10-20 days haha!

I think its good (for me anyway) that am not attracted early on as i may relapse!

 

Hmm I'd say about 5 years now. When I first started I'd do it about 3-5 times a day - was crazy. Then over the years once or twice a day. Lately I've been doing it a few times a week and am trying to reboot completely.

 

Immediatly you stop PMO, the brain and body starts changing. After 60 days; when the body has normal levels of testesterone & semen, (note that abstaining from Ejaculation for 1 week increases testesterone for about 45%.) the mind starts changing. Continued absistance, Leads the body to do everything to attract real mates.

" And after quitting, the brain looks around to find the natural rewards it evolved to see".
Garry wilson.

 

Do you think someone can keep their testesterone high by climaxing once a week? A friend of mine thinks once a week PMO does not affect him.

 

I would say after 7 days. If you are walking in the streets and see cute girls walking alone, you cannot help but follow her and if you are comfortable approaching random strangers and talking with them, you will not hesitate walking up to them and ask for directions and talk with them. I love how their hair is done, the way they walk with their handbags tucked near their body, and how beautiful their eyes and smile look

 

If one can not abstain from PMO forever, He/she can Fap once a weak. This is a little bit healthy. But as for me, am never gonna do that shit ever again.

 

SOunds interesting! Can you explain this part? '' The mind starts changing. Continued absistance, Leads the body to do everything to attract real mates'' What do you mean about real mates and how would you know if this is true? Not bashing you, i just wanna know

 

Many of us when still practising PMO Know that girls do not notice Us. After quitting , many report to be huge chick Magnets like me. Why is this? When you PMO, the brain is tricked to be having sex. The premitive part of the brain is mainly interested in production. During Pmo, the brain says, This nigga is reproducing so much. No need to do anything to attract mates or do shit.

After quitting, the brain does everything to attract real mates. Making your face cute, increasing your muscles, increasing your dick, increasing pheromones... Name them all. This is the reason why Nofap works. It gives you a burning desire to work extra hard to get that supper-pretty girl. Get a good job. Hope you know understand all this shit.

 

You're answer is very interesting to me! I never really wondered about this in the first place. But I feel like everytime I would not PMO for about 2 weeks, I would notice that girls would somehow act more flirty around me / giving me looks. Some even approached me while clubbing. I never actually thought that this could be because of my abstinence and the said effects that would arise from it. Don't know though if it was really my appearance & my bevaviour which caused this effects or if it was just some sort of placebo.

However, I can say that I'm usually feeling much more relaxed and experiencing much less social anxiety while doing a nofap session. Also my mood is better and I can focus much more on my daily routine. I'm currently on day 6 again. Is anyone encountering similar effects?

I'm also interested: How does this whole 'chick magnet' thing show up for you? And what's your success with girls in general? What had it been like when you were not on nofap yet?

 

Just keep going on Mate.

 

Hmm, it's been a long time since I got an erection just from seeing a beautiful woman while out and about, like not since high school. As far as feeling attraction to them (albeit without an erection) this only took a week or two for me after I stopped PMO.

 

On point. Couldn't say it better myself.

 

I gotta admit, this makes sense to me too. Thanks mate for the support.

 

@programer I literraly laughed to tears when I read ''During Pmo, the brain says, This nigga is reproducing so much. No need to do anything to attract mates or do shit. '' but it's so true and your whole post is very motivating. Thanks for this very insighful message!

 

It takes a Full Cup of blood to Make one single drop of Semen. In assence, Semen (sperms) is Important than blood. This is why men of nowadays have become Soft & weak compared to men who lived 50-30 years ago.

I am on day 270/ 9 months.

Indeed, Loss of Semen brings death & Gain of Semen brings more than just Life.

 

This post is Very Inspiring.