DE motivated nofap - 16 days and going strong

Hi all. I'm a 29 year old, physically very healthy guy that has been jerking to porn almost daily for around fifteen years. I am absolutely convinced that this has had a serious negative effect on my sexual performance with women, so I took the decision to go fap free on 23 December, and am currently 16 days in and going strong.

I am certain that constant use if hard porn to masturbate has desensitised me to real sex, both mentally and physically, and I am determined to 'reboot' to put this right. I have never had a problem getting with girls, but feel porn use has affected my performance. I now suffer from delayed ejaculation, and until a year or so ago, had an only climaxed through intercourse a handful of times despite numerous sexual partners. This was OK at first, but becomes really frustrating for both me, but also girlfriends who feel they must be doing something wrong when I would not cum.

In terms if my DE, the psychological effects if constant porn use significantly affect how your brain is wired. Hard core acts in sex videos become the norm, therefore standard missiinary sex for example would not excitement sufficiently, affecting both my erectjon and desire to cum. More significant for me however have been the physical effects that masturbatung every day had on my penis. I have become used to cumming only with my hand, therefore a vagina cannot match my action.

My situation improved last year, during which I had my first long term girlfriend (12 months). I was able to cum with her more often than not, however climax would still take a very long time, and would only happen in certain positions, and going extremely hard. Nevertheless this relationship was a positive step for me and reassured me that I can cum from sex, albeit after significant effort!

My motivation for nofap has stemmed from a recent encounter with a stunning girl that I have wanted to get with for years. I really want to make it work but she doesn't understand why I couldn't cum being with her, as she is not used to the same sort if hard sex that my last gf was. As such, I am now desperate to conquer my delayed ejaculation and just want normal sex life, where I can appreciate 'normal' sex with a beautiful woman and be able to cum from her touch/body alone.

As mentioned above, I am now 16 days with nofap and going strong. I am determined to see this through for some time, in the hope it cures my DE. Have any if my fellow DE sufferers had a similar experience, and does nofap help the problem?!

Thanks for reading my post.

 

Thanks man, I appreciate the reply. I'm really psyched by your experience. I'm now 18 days hard mode. Still going ok but so horny! Can't wait to try out on a girl soon.

For my info, have you managed to stay porn and fap free since? I'm nervous that once my DE is sorted, I might fall back into bad habits. Also, did you really notice your penis had to come more sensitive after going hard mode? I feel like the reboot is well under way after 18 days hard mode but want to go as long as possible to be sure.

Thanks.

 

Good man. I'll let you know how I'm getting on in a few days!

 

Thanks bro. I'm now on day 19. I currently feel good mentally, but conscious everyone talks about flatlining and wonder when this might hit...

I had some very vivid dreams last night, which I never usually have, so I can feel a change. I'm just not sure what it is yet!

There is also a girl really keen to hook up with me, who I have been with before successfully. I kind of want to get with her but at the same time, really want to keep my hard mode exploration going!

I may consider intercourse once I reach thirty days. Currently little/no desire to watch porn as I know nofap is for my own good. I will beat this.