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Perceived rejection

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Eagle15, Jan 12, 2016.

  1. Eagle15

    Eagle15 Fapstronaut

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    I'm noticing that ANY perceived rejection or criticism is a huge trigger for me. PMO seems like the only solution. Got to fight. Must Fight. Also these 7 day bastard extra synapses and trying to convince me to do anything, just fap. NO!!!!
     
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  2. Crispy21

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    Yes i can def see this. For instance if a girl doesnt text me back or something small and dumb happens, i have the smallest inkling of running back and fapping to get good feels instead of the bad ones you feel for that moment.
     
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  3. Eagle15

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    Thanks Crispy. Bingo that's it. It helps knowing that others have these same symptoms.
     
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  4. Crispy21

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    No prob man. Was actually curious if others had this also. I feel like my brain is changing just cuz as soon as that slight thought of possibly fapping, my brain is like NOPE and the idea quickly subsides. If im still feeling a little down i throw on my headphones and lose myself in my favorite music. I have also bought a guitar and have been teaching myself to play with the help of my friend which is a great activity to take your mind off things. Crazy how 2 weeks ago i would have no interest or will to do anything like learn an intstrument.
     
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  5. Eagle15

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    How many days are you up to? I'm going nuts at 7 days, I made it to 10 before, so this is my second crack at this. I found that picking up my bass helps a TON. Hilarious avatar BTW
     
  6. Crispy21

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    Haha thanks man. Tomrow will be 14 days. Honestly not as bad as i thought it would be. Days 1-7 were rough but i feel like im adjusting to no pmo. Stay strong bud. I think of how awesomes its gonna be to play guitar in front of a girl then have real sex with her when my pied is cured
     
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  7. Wildstar

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    Nice going Crisp! I don't know if I would have relapsed by now had I not had a gf. She's my sexual release at least 2-3/week. So I give you guys so much credit for doing this hard mode. Hang in there.
     
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  8. Crispy21

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    Thanks bud. Thats my ultimate goal to have releases come solely from a female. Never had sex so i guess you can say i dont know what im missing but whatever it is im sure its better than a hand
     
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  9. Eagle15

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    Save it for a good one Crispy. My fiancé is in the Philippines so I've got to go hard mode as well. It really sucks. when I saw her and had to pound Blue pills, and couldn't finish and I had to close my eyes and picture twisted porn while I was actually having real sex with one of the most spectacularly beautiful women you have ever seen. PIED sucks. Going for 90 hard mode. I need the cure.
     
  10. Wildstar

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    Yes it can def be better. But don't set your expectations too high especially your first time. It'll be awkward, clumsy, and it's never like the movies. I mean they don't even clean up afterwards in the movies! That's just nasty. Hopefully you'll meet someone w the new "you". You'll be more confidant, personable, and happier. When the chemistry is right it can be a fantastic experience. Us older fellers are here to help you younger lads if you like us to. I would like to think I have a few moves left.
     
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