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Don't be a beta male

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Nightcrawler15, Jan 13, 2016.

  1. Nightcrawler15

    Nightcrawler15 Fapstronaut

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    Masturbation is a beta male habit.

    If you jerk off more than the no. of times you have sexual intercourse, it means you are a beta male.

    You're fooling your brain by giving it an 'alpha' reward while in reality the reward is 'beta'. The brain takes it as an alpha reward because of all the hypersexualized visuals in porn. Still not convinced?

    Read this- "Masturbating to another male having sex puts you in the beta male position where you are the spectator in another man’s pleasure. The psychological effects of this puts you in a weak state where you place other men on a pedestal who are more “superior” or “alpha” than you. You will see yourself as inferior to other men which ONLY HARMS YOUR PSYCHOLOGY!"

    You need to stop lying to yourself. And the best part is that, you don't need to sacrifice anything.

    Just get off your butt, go for 30-40 min walk everyday in the morning. Sync your body rhythm to the natural rhythm of the nature. Don't be awake all night. It works!

    I have been addicted too and now I'm more in control. How? I started jogging/walking for 30/40 mins every morning. I was able to work more. Meet more people. Enjoy life in general.

    Start waking up early. This one step will change your life upside down.

    Deep down you never want to be a beta male.

    Ask yourself, do you?
     
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  2. This is super interesting! I've never thought about this aspect of porn abuse. I'm not a man, so it's not exactly for me per se, but still, interesting stuff. Thanks for sharing. Where did you get this, by the way?
     
  3. himmelstoss

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    It's been floating around the red pill in some form or another for years. Usually "all porn is cuckold porn."
     
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  4. Nightcrawler15

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    A friend of mine told me masturbation is a beta male habit. And I, being a writer, dig everything that seems interesting on the internet. So found it on google.

    Here's the full article. http://www.knowledgeformen.com/trash-your-porn-quit-masturbating-and-crush-life/

    If you're a girl, know that you're not an alpha. Women are also ranked into alpha, beta, omega. You like watching men doing other women, it means you can't get one for yourself. So, it works both ways.

    Use this analogy:
    Your sexual energy is synonymous with fossil fuel. Did you know 1 barrel of crude oil is equivalent to 1 man working for 25000 hours? Similarly, your sexual energy gives you unlimited creativity. It was meant to procreate and give birth to a human being who can 'CHANGE THE FUCKING WORLD" if he/she wants. Can you feel the power of that? So, don't waste it. Those working in the porno business are a parasite on our society. Nothing good comes out of it.

    I mean look at the consequences of porn addiction -
    1. Social anxiety
    2. Inability to achieve goals
    3. Loss of energy/enthusiasm in general
    4. Some people who take medication loss sexual capability.
    5. People are misdiagnosed for depression, though in reality they have the disease called 'Fucking yourself'. I've been down that road.

    If you have any of these things, you're not human. You have literally 'FUCKED YOURSELF'.

    So stop doing it. Be an alpha. Don't be a beta. If you desire sex, own your desire and run with it till you get a real guy/girl.
     
  5. Nightcrawler15

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    @TakingTheSteps You must read this post. http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=120.0

    The transmutation of sex energy calls for the exercise of will-power, to be sure, but the reward is worth the effort. The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural. The desire cannot, and should not be submerged or eliminated. But it should be given an outlet through forms of expression which enrich the body, mind, and spirit of man. If not given this form of outlet, through transmutation, it will seek outlets through purely physical channels.

    A river may be dammed, and its water controlled for a time, but eventually, it will force an outlet. The same is true of the emotion of sex. It may be submerged and controlled for a time, but its very nature causes it to be ever seeking means of expression. If it is not transmuted into some creative effort it will find a less worthy outlet.

    Highly sexed people always have a plentiful supply of magnetism.
    Through cultivation and understanding, this vital force may be drawn upon and used to great advantage in the relationships between people. This energy may be communicated to others through the following media:

    1. The hand-shake. The touch of the hand indicates, instantly, the presence of magnetism, or the lack of it.
    2. The tone of voice. Magnetism, or sex energy, is the factor with which the voice may be colored, or made musical and charming.
    3. Posture and carriage of the body. Highly sexed people move briskly, and with grace and ease.
    4. The vibrations of thought. Highly sexed people mix the emotion of sex with their thoughts, or may do so at will, and in that way, may influence those around them.
    5. Body adornment. People who are highly sexed are usually very careful about their personal appearance. They usually select clothing of a style becoming to their personality, physique, complexion, etc.

    Source: Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich".
     
  6. Nightcrawler15

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    Well, you're right. That makes masturbation an omega-habit, if that is even a valid term.

    Just imagine what would they tell their children about their profession. Wouldn't they just want to kill themselves? Or would they raise them as pornstars too.
     
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  7. I'm going to be a beta epsilon tau male.
     
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  8. marcpro

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    I don't think this comparison will bring us far... Know the harms that it did to you, don't blame whole society for an addiction only you can break. How cares if you're alpha, beta , gamma... No comparison is needed stop strenghtening the ego who will always want more and more.
     
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  9. Nightcrawler15

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    Being an alpha isn't just about strengthening the ego. BTW answer this question - What can you accomplish in this world with a weak ego? If you dig psychology, ego is essential to our survival.

    Alpha males are the backbones of society. And telling everyone to be like them is done with an inspirational undertone. It leads to better life as a whole. It makes them survive. It makes them improve the world. There is NOTHING wrong with this mindset.

    Of course, no one has to subscribe to a certain set of norms.

    This alpha beta concept is to help people who value it deep down.
    If you don't, then just step aside and make way for those who do.
    And the fact is, alpha beta exists even if you deny it. You just don't have to subscribe to any particular mindset because you're a free soul.
     
  10. That's interesting... I don't know if I relate/agree with the "you watch other people because you can't have it yourself" mindset, though, because I'm married and can have sex almost whenever I want. Lol that's a bit of a dangerous mindset because it implies and makes people believe that marriage or a relationship will "fix" the problem, and that's not always the case.

    It's funny what you said about the purpose of my sexual energy being procreation. That's true of men, as well, you know. That's the purpose of sex in general (an addition purpose is the binding intimacy of the act, but the primary purpose is conception). So shouldn't everyone feel that energy and feel the importance of that and not want to waste it?
     
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  11. This is really insightful. I do, indeed, dig psychology, and I agree with you here to a point. Thank you for this additional explanation because I think people tend to think of alpha and beta as personality types, which in some ways can't be changed completely at will. But you're right, it's different than that, and there's nothing wrong with encouraging people to seek and aspire toward those good qualities. I do think, however, that there is something wrong with wanting everyone to be the same in personality, because that isn't how we were made to be. We're all unique for a reason and an important purpose. But anyway, I don't think that's what you're trying to do here exactly, but it's important to remember that "betas" have an important place in our society as well. "Alphas" may be louder with their innovation or whatever, but betas are vitally important. It's like wanting everyone to be the "idea man" who comes up with creative solutions to solve world problems. Well that's great, but without the diligent, hard working "behind the scenes" people, what would becoming of those great ideas? Nothing. So everyone is important and unique and made with a purpose.

    I do agree with your assessment of this issue in relation to porn, though. Not a healthy mindset.
     
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  12. Nightcrawler15

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    Well,the 'not having for yourself' part isn't true for everyone, but most I think.

    And I referred to the procreation part in general for both sexes. I didn't mean that for only females. It's more about the sexual energy in general. It has huge power which seeks expression through various levels.

    I agree that 'behind the scenes' people are as important as leaders. That's why I mentioned the 'inspirational' undertone. And if this mindset helps you overcome addiction, or even inspires you to go for one more day, then it's useful. I am not an alpha yet so I can't say. But I'm certain that I want to be one. Here, I just want to inspire. I am a professional writer and that is what I love to do. :D
     
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    Plz read this again - If you jerk off more than the no. of times you have sexual intercourse, it means you are a beta male.
    I think I make myself clear when I say you don't have to subscribe to this mindset. Those who want to believe it are welcome and others shouldn't bother.
     
  14. marcpro

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    Ok talking about my own experience, I read books about this whole alpha, beta stuff. Getting the girls you want, it brought me nowhere. People forget themself in this quest that is to reinforce their ego. Getting more and more forgetting bout' the simple things, never be satisfied. The insatiable need of growing, being more powerful. It leads to the pervert point where you break and you ask yourself: what the fuck am i doing? I read all this pick-up stuff to gain confidence toward women, it helped me at the beginning and then I saw the illusion if I would have gone further. I won't compare myself to others, saying that they are less then me, to feel that I have more value.
    Try it become an Alpha you'll see after maybe you'll post the same stuff as me. Or you'll seek for more and more.
     
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    I'm definitely an alpha female guess that might explain why I never had the desire to watch porn.
     
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    How is a guy who fucks hot chicks by profession beta? That's just a conveniently constructed self-deception to feel aloof. And it is also psychologically not so logical at all that watching porn is like watching somebody else having sex from a psychological pov. It's just as possible that you simply identify with the performer. And even if you don't - b/c maybe you have voyeuristic tendencies - why would that make you beta. This whole thread is contrived nonsense to feel better - but any self-deception is a house built on sand. Just let porn guys do their porn stuff and you simply don't watch it b/c it's effing with your sexual balance and wasting your life time.

    Worrying about being beta - is beta.
     
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  17. himmelstoss

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    Because they also fuck dudes
     
  18. plongeur

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    What is because who also fucks dudes?
     
  19. Crispy21

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    This omg. Some of the posts in this thread made me question some of you guys on here. Who gives a fuck what the pornstars are doing? Like really?
     
  20. Crispy21

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    Nope. Thats just not true and its a false generalizing statement.
     

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