[Advice] He says he doesn't watch porn anymore...

It's doable! I wish all you guys a speedy recovery!

 

I'm full of sound bites this evening:

- Those who get the most angry are often the ones with the most to hide.
- Marriage doesn't fix anything, instead, it places a magnifying glass on each person's problems.
- There is dark comfort in familiar habits, most can't take the first step without it ceasing to be comfortable.
- There's a seductive allure to the depths of PMO where you begin falling into yourself like a dark cocoon.

Stated differently, he's definitely doing it and he's growing more and more disconnected from the world and what's real. It might take an ultimatum to wake him up. Ultimatums won't fix things, but he might need a flash point to open his eyes, but from that point forward he has to want it.

PMO isn't killing your relationship per se, emotional death is killing your relationship, and that's a symptom of both PMO & dishonesty.