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Scared I've lost all attraction to girls. Mind telling me to look at porn

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jreeze2015, Jan 18, 2016.

  1. Jreeze2015

    Jreeze2015 Fapstronaut

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    Is this flatline? I am 21 years old and have been watching porn since I was 12. Watched it daily. Over the last few years I've had weak erections. I am 3 weeks into the reboot. I am scared I've lost all attraction to girls because I feel no drive to fuck them. None of that "UMPH" feeling if you know what I mean. Is this all apart of the process? My mind is urging me to just take a look at pictures of pussy or girls asses to see if your still attracted to them
     
  2. DannyCool

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    Nothing to worry about. It is called a flatline on the forum and it is part of the reboot. Look it up in the glossary. It will go away soon. It is a sign you are doing the reboot properly but it definitely wont last.
     
  3. DannyCool

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  4. SiuLong

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    Hey dude, please stay strong. You might be flatlining, meaning you will feel no desire whatsoever. This is normal, your body has to recover from too much arousal and evacuation. You'll get your mojo back eventually :)
     
  5. Flat line. Do not react. Just relax and breath. Your mind will say anything to get its fix. Just relax. Stop thinking about sex. Go for a walk.
     
  6. Jreeze2015

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    When in your opinion does that attraction come back? I really hope this doesn't last so long. I was with a girl Saturday night making out and even got her pants off and was just kissing her butt cheeks and giving her a massage and my erection was only like 70 percent. She gave me a blow job and I came but it wasn't a rock hard erection. When do you guys think I'll notice an improvement in erection quality and attraction?
     
  7. I'm in day 37 and in your same track mate, apart in some occasional days (3/4 in total) I feel completly asexual.
     
  8. You were 70%???? And you call it a flatline? I wouldn't be able to come up even with the fucking megan fox in my bed!
     
  9. IGY

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    It is recommended that you stop all sexual activity. This will result in the quickest possible recovery from your "issues". If you do sexual stuff, you will heal at a slower rate. The choice is yours. My flatline lasted from 20-70 days. But we are all different, there is no set time frame. You have spent years getting in this mess, it is not unreasonable to wait (maybe six weeks) before the flatline changes. It is not easy to be patient, but it will be worth it in the end.
     
  10. DannyCool

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    Make the decision now to stay off porn a while longer and you wont regret it. ED will only get worse. Imagine being in your mid 20s being able to get no erection at all with girls with not even the blue pills working. Now is the time my friend. Well done on getting laid btw. :)
     
  11. cud

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    IMHO i dont think the "result" of this should be go after every woman and want to fuck her as hell. I think the result of this should be transformation to a real man!

    What does it mean? Proud, loyal, honor, loving, supportive, hard as rock (literally :) ) and finally adult man - not a boy playing video games, waiting only for weekend to come so he can go and get drunk and gossip with friends.

    Think about that and place that picture of yourself being like Julius Ceasar or king-philosopher Marcus Aurelius - decisive men not worrying take any risk in the name of their people.

    And to your problem - dont worry thats "just" a flatline. You dont have any other choice than just keep going...and you will get there!

    I promise!

    Cheers
     
  12. Jreeze2015

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    Maybe I worded myself wrong, but I am doing this for one girl. My ex girlfriend who was my first love. She is now back in my life after not seeing each other for a year and my love for her never faded even though she dated another guy and I didn't not date. It was her who I got a blow job from this weekend. I want to start having sex with her again but I don't know if I will be recovered in time. I quit smoking and am starting to exercise this week. I want her back in my life as my girlfriend eventually but I will settle for friends with benefits for now while I better myself. My goal is to change the boy I am into a man. I am not looking to go around sleeping with a lot of girls. That's not my goal. My goal is to give my all, to be there for this girl no matter what happens, and to please her sexually. I just am hoping this flatline doesn't like freaking 2 or 3 months
     
  13. I'm happy for you mate! Anyway tre length of the flatline depends on many things, such a how many years you were P addicted and so on. As I said I hit flatline long before starting reboot, so I actually exausthed myself years ago but didn't take time ti recover. So I think my flatline will ve very consistent. Hope for you will be different, but I would count al least 3/4 months to be sure.
     
  14. cud

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    You are doing a great thing! Quit all those addictions. YOu probably already know this but dont do anything in your life for someone else - upgrade version of yourself only because of you - that is what make us attractive - the self-confidence. Only then you can be really supportive for your girl only then you can be the mountain that she can rely on while some storms come!

    Win this battle - you have my sword :).

    Built up this real man within yourself and you ll be good. More than that - trust me. I have been on almost same journey as you are.
    I wish you good luck!!!

    Keep us updated!
     

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