The girl I like has a new man. Damn it.

So far, the new year hasn't been so good. I just realized I now I have PIED (so fuck my life) and on top of that, this girl I really liked now has a new boyfriend. I was supposed to get with her, and even my friends were encouraging me to date her. In fact, they were in the process of hooking me up. This girl was unlike any other, and although I hanged out with her 5-6 times, she's different from most girls. We just clicked. Furthermore, she's independent, strong, outgoing, etc. Everything I wished I could be. But I NEVER told her I liked her.

Apparently, she's been seeing this guy at work which I didn't knew about and now they've been dating for the last 4 months. But here's the thing, during the last 6 months, I was seriously focusing on finishing college, but more importantly, I needed to heal. Last February, I was hurt really bad by another girl. At that point, I thought all girls were jerks because I've had many bad experiences. This girl, however, gave me hope again. But more than anything, she has inspired me to become something more and even encouraged me to discover myself. That's why I'm moving out.

However, do you think I did the right thing by not pursuing her? Has anyone ever experienced something like this, and asked yourself the same question? For me, I'm really glad I met her, and I even have her number just in case. I guess things happen for a reason, and although I was devastated, I need to move on. At least I know the type of girls that I want.

 

Thanks for the advice and encouragement man. Never thought of that