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Death Grip - will NoFap help?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by andarf, Jan 30, 2016.

  1. peewee85

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    Stay strong andarf. Just don't PMO!! It WILL work! Day 28 for me :).
     
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  2. andarf

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    Day 13 for me! We can do it! I don't even think about porn/masturbation. But in the same time i really want some sex with my GF.
     
  3. peewee85

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    I know that feeling :-D. I did have sex with my wife last week. I think it is ok to do if you don't get stressed when it is not working and you can handle that. If it works it is perfect and if not it is still ok. And be aware of the chasers. If you think you can't handle it I think i is better to wait a bit more. Satisfie her and be happy that at least she can enjoy it :). Our time will come.
     
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  4. andarf

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    Yes! NoFap is really my last hope to rewire my brain
     
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  5. andarf

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    Day 14.

    That means tomorrow I will reach the point when I relapsed last time. I feel urges to watch some porn, but I won't do it. My girl will come today and we will have sex. I'm curious if my dick will be hard enough (flatline) and how will the sensation fell like after 2 full weeks MO free. Good for me that I have some ED pills with me.
     
  6. peewee85

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    What ist your Status andarl? Finished Day 30 today :).
     
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  7. andarf

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    Day 16 today, which is my record!

    I had sex on Saturday's night and it was really good, but I didn't even come close to an O. That makes me doubt if my case is really cureable. I don't know.... I just want to be normal and enjoy sex as any normal person.
     
  8. peewee85

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    16 Days is nothing compared to years of doing it wrong. Just try to stay positive and wait till it works. You'll be fine.
     
  9. andarf

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    I just need some hope that NoFap will really help. I don't feel it now. I don't know if anything will help me...
     
  10. peewee85

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    Just tell yourself that it will work. Be patient. If sex always gets you frustrated you maybe should cut it for some time. I'm on day 31 and my penis feels way more sensitive. Gonna try sex soon and see what happens. Be strong mate.
     
  11. andarf

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    Do you have sex regularry during your rebooting? Do you ever cum, or is there nothing at all in your case?
     
  12. peewee85

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    I didn't have sex regularly. I'm going to start to have it regularly this week. I didn't cum till now but I didn't think it will happen because not much time has passed...but it felt way better than before and I'm sure that it will happen in the future. I don't care when it happens or how long it takes but I will get there :).
     
  13. SnowWhite

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    May I ask: Do you have a foreskin?
     
  14. DireMerl

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    You need to be patient. It will take as long as it takes. Also, as hard as it is, try not to think about o when having sex. If you're concentrating too hard on it it'll never happen.
     
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  15. andarf

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    Yes i do
     
  16. andarf

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    If not thinking about O at all. During my life I just get used to the fact, that this doesn't happen to me, which is quite sad if you think about it.
     
  17. peewee85

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    Patience and willpower is key here. Stick to the plan and let yourself heal. Just consider this...I watched porn for like 15 or so years and used death grip. That is 15x365 days (5475 days) of damage I have done to myself. It would be unlogical to think, that 16 or 30 days are enough to reverse the damage. Like I said...it will happen sooner or later.
     
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  18. andarf

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    I WON'T surrender. I will wait as long as it takes!
     
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  19. Pirlo23

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    I suffer from DE and for me it took 40 days. 16 is not enough, wait until at least 30. Stay strong we can all beat this you will see!
     
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  20. peewee85

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    Apparently I seem to be flatlining....tried to have sex yesterday and couldn't get it up even if my life depended on it. Strange feeling. Have to be patient and hope this doesn't take months to pass.
     

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