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Will no PMO eventually get me laid?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Apr 5, 2014.

  1. My intention with no PMO is to be aroused by girls in real life and have sex with them. Its been 5 days and I can feel like I'm getting more attention from the opposite sex. I became very aggressive today and channelled that aggression into working out harder and longer. That felt amazing. But I'm having trouble concentrating studying, which is more important than me working out right now, because my mind is being hounded by the need for an orgasm. That is what I'm working on. Letting the sex thoughts not turn into a fap. Unfortunately, I'm in high school and sex isn't common or easy to get. Will I eventually get close if I don't PMO? Otherwise, this NoFap thing might not be what I need...

    Please partially answer my question/questions and share your experiences.
     
  2. NotAfraid

    NotAfraid Fapstronaut

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    I can't talk from an experience, 'cause I'm a virgin, but since you will get your testosterone up and your sex drive is returning to it's natural state, it's inevitable that you will be much more attractive in the eyes of bitches, I mean women.

    I've felt much more confident lately and I get many looks from girls and more attention in general. I can't wait for the final outcome of this no-PMO diet.

    Just keep doing it, keep believing in it and see for yourself.
     
  3. I'm a complete virgin too and that is why I've become a fapstronaut - to get laid irl. It seems so unimaginable. Me going and getting real sex. Hopefully it should become a reality. Stay strong, bro!
     
  4. NoFap will help give you an extra push. But if you were bad with girls before NoFap you're not going to magically improve because you have more testosterone running in you. You still have to approach women and establish connections. If you continue NoFap and actively challenge yourself to break out of your shell, however, getting a girlfriend is inevitable.

    I've been doing this no PMO for about 3 months, relapsing multiple times. What I can tell you is I can talk to women more confidently. I actively take care of my skin and work out my body. But I haven't gotten a girlfriend yet. I always tell myself "She's out of my league. You're crazy if you do this!" All sorts of self-defeating thoughts. However, I feel like more of a man and can connect with other people, man or woman, with greater ease than ever before.

    So in short, you're not going to "get laid" immediately. But if you actively practice this and give it everything you've got, you will gain greater rewards in the long-run.
     
    Last edited: Apr 5, 2014
  5. Echo what Progressive Death Mettle said.

    It's important to note however, that getting laid shouldn't be your primary life goal. If you're just looking for a release, then you will find your way back to PMO. Putting that extra pressure on yourself can get in the way of the benefits that quitting P has that go beyond sex.
     
  6. Thanks for the compliment, Kosh32.

    And a last piece of advice for OP when picking up girls: go with friends and make challenges. One of the Simple Pickup vids advocates the Push-Up Challenge, where one guy tells a friend to talk to any random girl they see. If they refuse, they must do push-ups wherever they're standing. Doing random, crazy stuff in public gets the juices flowing and bolsters your confidence. And if nothing else, it'll get you in shape!
     
  7. muesli

    muesli Fapstronaut

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    You will get women's attention, but that is usually not enough. You must act. If in general you can't talk with women, nofap is of little help. Nofap makes you more attractive, but if you are shy and insecure, it's still very hard to get a girl.
     

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