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35..new here but need to break old addiction

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by keepmoving612, Feb 25, 2016.

  1. keepmoving612

    keepmoving612 New Fapstronaut

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    Hey. I am a 35 year old male,married with two kids. Pmo has been a problem for the longest time,but I have never really made a concerted effort to change things. It is a problem for me and has contributed to tough times for my marriage,dirrlectly and indirectly.
    The frequent masturbation is the main thing although I do look at porn on my phone and ocassionally at home. This has all been going on for close to 20 years. I am a creature of habit and tend to masturbate out of routine and habit more than anything else,often relieving boredom and bad feelings.
    I also have a tendency to objectify my wife and any sex we might have sees me acting as if I'm in a porno scene. Does this get better over time? Will I start to see my wife and other women as more than just objects for my sexual gratification? I also have phimosis which means my foreskin does not fully retract. I cannot have an orgasm without masturbating.
    I am feeling positive...am on day 2 and no real problems right now. Would love to hear what people might have to say.
    Many thanks in advance.
     
  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome! I'm glad you're here.
     
  3. Ostrich12

    Ostrich12 Fapstronaut

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    Hi there.

    Im in a very similar situation bar the phimosis. I'm also new so cant comment on the longterm effects, I can say this is the first time I've felt positive that I might actually be able to stop.

    Good luck and stay in touch
     

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