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Female attention???

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by xjbert1423, Feb 26, 2016.

  1. xjbert1423

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    Around what day did you start noticing more female attention?
     
  2. PornMustDie

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    Started in nursery school, if I'm being honest [not vain]. Age 5.

    I wasn't the 'cool kid' but I was a top athlete (could run laps around the ladies), academically strong (I coloured in my drawings neatly) and I could do the moonwalk on just about any terrain/surface.

    Boosted my confidence madly. Contributed to the man I am today so I'd like to thank all my nursery school honeys. *Sniff*
     
  3. PornMustDie

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    If your question is actually about PMO, I'm so stupid. Sorry, mate. Lol.
     
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  4. PornMustDie

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    @RepentMySins - I'm really not a judgmental person so it's honestly cool that you don't care.

    But always been curious as to why exactly not?
     
  5. That said, females pick up on hormones, and NoFap == higher testosterone levels (due to increased androgen receptor sensitivity, and increased free testosterone after 7+ days of absintence). So while they might not know you're doing NoFap, they'll likely feel you're somehow more interesting than before.

    That + your new infused confidence == winning combo.

    ...but, as you said above, you have to put yourself out there. Can't expect the ladies to come to you, if you're already putting yourself out there then NoFap might make you more confident and make them more into you, but you have to get yourself there to begin with or you don't stand a chance. So take the initiative!
     
  6. PornMustDie

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    @RepentMySins - Hmm. Thin line between solitude and isolation. I learned that growing up. Buuuut I'm sure you've drawn yours.

    As for women? Always been attracted to their attention. This could turn into a whole big chat about my life story, haha, so I'll press pause there.
     
  7. PornMustDie

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    Hahaha, no man. We each have a common purpose in life which is to live it with each other.

    Man was created to be with woman. That cannot be changed. No man's fate is to remain alone forever just because he struggles with women or lacks a great desire to be with one.

    Sounds like you simply lack the motivation to pick up your ball sack, take a deep breath and approach a wonderful lady. Who knows, she's probably at the coffee shop right now thinking about how she might meet you.

    [this was all said in a very polite tone, mate]
     
  8. PornMustDie

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    Confidence is an imperative tool in life, whether in smaller amounts or larger.

    If you've got the balls to speak to the cashier lady at McDonald's, you've got the balls to speak to any other female.

    Hmm, I understand what you're saying. But you're living in a shell. Life is full of beautiful things, like women. It should be an exciting prospect for every man. Don't settle for the 'loneliness'. Break free!

    How old are you? Or if you don't want to share, can you at least say whether you're still in school or not?
     
  9. PornMustDie

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    Nope. Not lame. You're very young, we're round about the same age.

    So let's continue: Since you do, in fact, like woman and are hetero - do you have a particular type? Curious.

    [I hope none of this endangers your abstention]
     
  10. Buzz Lightyear

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    The question was 'at what day did you start noticing female attention?'. This is just about being more perceptive and aware, more present. You will find after a few weeks that you are no longer in your head; your energy will naturally emanate outward to engage with objects around you... as if you have a supernatural power... and perhaps you do. Woman will then notice this as they are generally the more perceptive member of our species. You will then in turn notice them noticing you, and thus the mating ritual begins. :rolleyes:

    A warm summer evening,
    A cool breeze on the air,
    When before me a daughter
    Of Aphrodite appeared
    Silkily clad in the colour of sunset,
    Fluttering about fixed starry eyes,
    Which drew me in a moving orbit,
    Where we circled like twin stars in the night.
     
    Last edited: Feb 26, 2016
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  11. PornMustDie

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    @RepentMySins - Yep. You seem adamant. But to each his own. As I said, not here to pass judgment.

    I do, however, hope that void which seems so evident is filled with companionship. What I'm telling you isn't opinionated, it's factual. You'll be laughing about this someday with your posterity, lol.

    Keep well, mate!
     

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