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My job is a trigger to me...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by SilentRa1n, Mar 1, 2016.

  1. Mar 1, 2016 #1
    SilentRa1n

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    I work as a Massage Therapist.... And some of the people i work on triggers triggers triggers. 85% total nude, 10% underwear and 5% clothes on. During the session I am ok, but afterwards all the fantasy and triggers get exponential increased. what should i do???
     
    SilentRa1n, Mar 1, 2016
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  2. Mar 2, 2016 #2
    PornMustDie

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    Well, on the bright side, your job is an incredible opportunity to practice self control and self restraint. Focusing less on the person's nudity and more on the task at hand, which is easing the person, could perhaps help.

    On the other hand, if massage therapy isn't really what you want to do then you could always find another job. If you REALLY want to be a message therapist, then you have only one option which is to fight the urges.

    You have a great job which benefits so many people in ways you may never know. You're a superhero against stress, hurt, grief, anxiety etc. Remind yourself of that - Focus more on the importance of your job than the fact that you operate on nude people. Hopefully it helps!
     
    PornMustDie, Mar 2, 2016
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  3. Mar 2, 2016 #3
    Eshaan

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    Just try to give your customers pleasure so that they give valuable feedback rather than pleasuring the zombie inside you
     
    Eshaan, Mar 2, 2016
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  4. Mar 2, 2016 #4
    SilentRa1n

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    Thanks guys, During my session I am 100% focused and doing my best to help them. It is a very rewarding job to me spiritually. It just that afterwards, i start coming up with fantasies about it.
     
    SilentRa1n, Mar 2, 2016
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