Sex with girlfriend

It's not necessary to fap! It's all in the mind how & when you want to come.

 

He should not. I think it's just his brains trying to trick him into fapping.
Fapping does not cure PE. Nofap can cure PE because it increases confidence and reduces anxiety. Anxiety is one of the big reasons for having PE.
& Real life sex is not a competition to perform as long as possible, it's about being close/intimate with the person you care about. It's not the end of the world if he's not going to last long.
Stay strong!

 

I'd say no dont do it. If the girl knows he's a virgin and no experienced it's normal to be awkward and not last long.
If he wants tips have him msg me or you can. 45 female here. I know stuff!

 

^This.

And also if they were supposed to have a frequent meaningful sex life, chances are that he'll last longer through a lot practice.

 

A lot of the trick to reasonably good sex is being comfortable with what is: the setting, your looks, the other person, and also your level of competence (in really advanced sex, you can also deliberately create discomfort).
Especially in beginner's level sex, it's best to make a bit light of your incompetence; that creates a bond and puts her at ease, too. I agree with the others that it's not that good to masturbate beforehand. It tends to foster alienation from the partner when you want & need all the closeness you can get.
One of the biggest mistakes in love making, especially for beginners, is to get into a kind of performance mode and be all about impressing the other person.
If he really shoots too quick (which can happen with or without masturbation), he is best adviced to have a line ready like 'Oops! that was quick; I'm not surprised, you're so cute!' And if he is that quick, he'll be back up again to continue in no time, too, so he can say to her something like 'That was just a warm up! Are you ready for another round?'
Tell him to keep the expectation low, talk a lot with her and try to make an arrangement not for just the first time but something like the first dozen times or so ("Let's do it every two days for three weeks to get used to it" or something like that...).

 

Oh, and go for ice cream together after... ('And now the best part: let's go for ice cream!' ).
Seriously, a lot about the impression you get from the first time (and actually also many other times) is about what you do after sex. Crack some jokes about it ('I thought it would be a lot harder' or something simple like that) to create connection...

 

If it's at all possible, I think it's great to actually go out. It's easy to have a bit of a post-coital depression after sex and that can be a bit alienating. So it's nice to have a bit of a pattern-interrupt and it also helps to make a bit fun of something that is easily taken too serious.
This is not gospel and there may be reasons not to go out but try to get the spirit of the pattern-interrupt and bonding after the experience on a new plane...