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Can only fantasize of sadistic porn

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by recoome, Mar 5, 2016.

  1. Mar 5, 2016 #1
    recoome

    recoome Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    I didn't fap but of late when i think of sex then it's mostly abusive and like there's power and dominance instead of love and trust.

    either i'd be the dominant or the submissive but i cant think of mutual love sex acts.

    Will reboot solve this issue as well?
     
    recoome, Mar 5, 2016
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  2. Mar 5, 2016 #2
    avatarivn

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    I am sure those thoughts will eventually go since most people's tastes get screwed up by porn usage (I was starting to get into disgusting stuff myself before I decided to start my NoFap journey). Important thing to recognize though, is that a fantasy is unlikely to become a reality so its better not to dwell on it, regardless of how it looks like.
     
    avatarivn, Mar 5, 2016
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  3. Mar 5, 2016 #3
    IzzyBM

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    Brother don't beat yourself up about vivid images that you carry in your mind! Soon you will free yourself from these strong images and they will become blurry! Keep strong in your NoFap journey!
     
    IzzyBM, Mar 5, 2016
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  4. Mar 5, 2016 #4
    ChrisHaven

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    Yes- a reboot will solve this. I was into some pretty nasty stuff before my reboot 6 years ago. Love and trust in sex was laughable to me back them. After my reboot, it literally hurt me to see some of the genre of porn I used to be into.
    Your empathy for other people will come back as you stay off porn. No worries- just start the journey. This might sound weird, but when you begin to develop empathy for other, you begin to love and appreciate yourself more.
     
    ChrisHaven, Mar 5, 2016
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