Happy Marriages and Unexpected Pregancies

Good evening fellow fapstronauts,

In my recent ramblings about sex and relationships, I was concerned about my stance on Sex After Marriage. I LOVE the humpy pumpy! Porn makes our sex life's frustrating because we can't interact with our 'tribes' that way. If you're a small town person like me, you understand where I'm coming from. Porn is like a carnival that makes you wish you could try all the 'rides'

Honestly, coming from a liberal perspective, I am not ready to raise a child. If I could I'd like to ejaculate in someone I trust 110%. Through my experience as a sexually starved man, I watched many become unexpectedly pregnant. I would love the experience of conceiving a child. As a min. wage earner I cannot be trusted with raising a child.

If I were to get a girl pregnant in the ugliest circumstances, I'd be afraid for the future of my family. I would not resort to abortion because that's unethical, indifferent, and time costly. In Buddhism, we talk about the ethics of energy management, then meditate and eat samosas for potlucks. We don't hook up with each other unless we can accept the responsibility. Spending our energy on just 'getting laid' is not trusting in yourself. You need to make a stance on how to protect yourself from wasting precious minutes to become 'enlightened'.

Sex is an empowering experience. I've heard arguments about sex after marriage like "how will you know if they're good in bed?". I slightly agree because I'm at that age where I should be married. That leaves me the option of having sex with frustrated wives, prostitutes, and casual flings.

I want to meditate every day so I can experience meaningful and enlightening sex. I want to work towards being that man with great skill and charisma. I've heard of married couples that spice up their sex lives with erotic adventures.

What I'm asking is these questions about having a successful relationship and meaningful sex life:

1. Should you have sex before marriage?
2. How do you determine if somebody is right for you?
3. Why are couples having children before marriage?
4. What are ways married couples spice up their sex lives?
5. What is your stance on abortion?

 

Not quite. I was unaware how unspecific the question I posed was to the audience. My experience of couples having children are in their early 20's. Millenials are born into tough economic times when jobs are not readily available. Say I had a friend named 'Fearless Fred' that worked for close to min. wage. He works 40 hours a week to provide for himself to sustain his lifestyle. He meets 'Frisky Frida' then hits it off on their first date. They start a relationship at work and in their personal. They conceive during a night out in the big city. Frisky Frida proudly announces to Fearless Fred he's going to be a father. Fearless Fred becomes insecure about being able to provide for his family. From an objective view, as a friend of Fearless Fred, I'd watch him suffer financially and emotionally.