Day 150, DONE. Get your ass in gear and change your life

can wait to join you, see you in 63 days!

see you in 49 days!

 

22 in. Proud as fuck!

 

I agree!!
This post is for everyone.SolidStance inspired me to add in.
Keeping track of the days keeps you motivated that your pushing through but only paying too much attention to how many days you abstained is a waste of time.
I myself have learned this in the past.
It's about how much you change in those days. The streak is just there in the backround.

Were all in transition and we all struggle with something but I agree we should be tougher on ourselves and more disciplined.
Were just visitors on this Earth for a short time and everything is temporary and nothing is consistant. Everyday this thought crosses my mind. Are you living just to live.? Just to take up space??
Think how many people were here before us?? Millions, Billions with bigger problems than ours. Everyone recieves time, how we spend it depends on us.
Obviously we have work, other responsibilities we have to take care of and obstacles to jump and sickness and deaths in the family and doing things we don't want to do but the point is., do the best you can with what you are given. In the end at least you can say you tried and failed than a coward who was to scared to try.
Im gonna leave you guys with this parable I read somewhere once..

There was two frogs in a glass bottle of milk. Some how both of them got in there and one of them says to the other one. ..
"This is it this is the end for us" .," theres no way were getting out i'm gonna sink to the bottom and thats it.
"The other one says i'm gonna fight and fight". The one who gave up is sinking to the bottom and is screaming "there is no point fighting it there is no way out"
The fighter jumped up and down and ran around and kicked and squirmed and flopped his feet and arms swimmimg and kicking the milk with everything he had until finally he whipped the milk into butter and slid out of the glass bottle and survived.
Theres always a way out, don't give up!

 

Awesome post dude. Just what I needed

 

Very true, great post, thank you.

 

What benefits have you had from nofap?

 

What benefits have you had from masturbating to porn ?
NoFap isn't easy its not for everyone. Theres some benifits but there different for everyone. The biggest benefit of knowing that only you are in charge and you wont wake up one day and life will be perfect. The deep reality of knowing that you can do more with your life than is possible.The raw emotions you feel when there not covered up by porn or other distractions.
When your doing NoFap and other challenges you force your body mind and soul to adapt. The more difficult things you do the stronger you get physically and mentally. Think how many people can't quit bad habits,we all have them or had them, but its because there weak in the mind. NoFap is a push to the Hero you should be.
Keep pushing guys.
Onehundredandeight

 

As someone who recently relapsed after 304 days, I love your straight up honesty so much. No sugar coating, just "welcome to the real world". Yes, yes, and yes. Be strong, be a man about it. Fucking do it. Wish I would have carried this into last week when I relapsed. No matter how far you go, relapse is always a click away. Keep this brick tough mentality, and never get soft about it. Mad respect brother.

 

Amen brother! It's there everyday but we fight every day.
"Were all gonna make it"

 

nice

 

Hey Solidstance and congrats for this 150 days

I started the last year a program or I make the decision to stop PMO and in the first time I has 60days without PMO and after I returned to PMO.

Now I want to restart to stop PMO , I'm curretly in my 4th day But I have a big problem and I want your advice :

I do not see since 4 days a porn but When I want to sleep , I can't stop masturbating , I masturbate but without ejaculating en thinking of a girl of my class , and that's help me a lot to sleep but I think IS A BIG PROBLEM , so how to stop this bad habit ?

 

good job man !! you write one of the best motivational posts in this website . most people just need this : motivation . focus on an objective and never give up ; try to get involved every day ,improve and finally succeed

 

This was just what I needed to hear. I had my first relapse and allowed it to turn from just a peek to over a week of daily PMO. I can't allow myself even the smallest of setbacks. The breakdown in my mental state is more than I can handle, and it becomes harder to get back to NoFap. The picture of myself still PMOing in 40 years Is a little scary, but it is the reality if I don't suit up as you say. I never imagined 22 years ago that first time I touched myself that I could let this thing control me for so long. My time is now. I will make it count. Thanks for the inspiration.