What should I do?

kriss93 · Mar 20, 2016

Porn made me feel very feminine. And I don't want to be like this. I want to be proud of being a man again, and feel the "man duties". How can I earn it? Abstaining simply does not seem successful (it helps a bit but I the feminine feelings came back)...

What should I do?

kk76 · Mar 21, 2016

Let time and abstaining help to get you back

LemonFresh · Mar 21, 2016

You are right. Rebooting requires more than just abstaining in such cases, you have to rebuild your masculinity. You can actually raise your testosterone my tricking your mind into thinking you are a dominant masculine man, there have been studies done on this. I would suggest doing things that would make you feel a proud man. For example facing your fears, taking risks, going outside of your comfort zone, lifting weights, doing things that involve muscle and strength, learning new skills. Learning handyman skills from your father is a great thing to do. Sleeping well and having good posture are also good.

kriss93 · Mar 21, 2016

I remember I had always got some autogynephilic feeling, but in general I felt like a man, and the feminine feelings came to my mind rarely (~1-2 times per month). And that wasn't a problem for me, rarely I had got off to these fantasies (~1 times per month) and it wasn't a big problem for me. But in the last years these fantasies are growing and I cannot get hard when I thinking about being a man and kissing a woman...I know it is hot, but immediately when I am starting fantasizing about this, my mind turns it over and "put me in the woman position" and feel so aroused... :/

hungarianpmowarrior · Mar 22, 2016

I do street workout so I hope it will make me more masculin is guess. I don't want to seem girlish )(even if i am gay)

kriss93 · Mar 22, 2016

Bro'. I'd rather be gay than this... all the time when I am think what if I would be a woman, there is a constant adrenaline rush in my head... but when I pay attention how I walk, like an alpha male, I don't think that is not me or something, I just feel nothing special, but a bit calmness and proudness... but when I am don't pay attention how I walk and etc. This adrenaline feeling is in the back of my mind and crying to me to act like a girl and do girlish things....

I really can say I'd rather be gay as a REAL MAN than this...
I am afraid of this feeling will improve to a state when I cannot resist it and I will came out as trans...

LemonFresh · Mar 22, 2016

kriss93 said: ↑

I remember I had always got some autogynephilic feeling, but in general I felt like a man, and the feminine feelings came to my mind rarely (~1-2 times per month). And that wasn't a problem for me, rarely I had got off to these fantasies (~1 times per month) and it wasn't a big problem for me. But in the last years these fantasies are growing and I cannot get hard when I thinking about being a man and kissing a woman...I know it is hot, but immediately when I am starting fantasizing about this, my mind turns it over and "put me in the woman position" and feel so aroused... :/
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I have the same history bro, I have also talked to people like us who have a history of weak autogynephilic sexuality that got out of control with porn and they managed to recover to how they were before.

iRebootMyself · Mar 22, 2016

LemonFresh said: ↑

I have the same history bro, I have also talked to people like us who have a history of weak autogynephilic sexuality that got out of control with porn and they managed to recover to how they were before.
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