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Getting someone else to do the M in PMO

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by madmax1, Feb 28, 2016.

  1. I wish I could like that twice, @Dr. J
     
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  2. Dr. J

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    LOL!!!! Good to have a kindred spirit . . . I'm sure there's lots of them. We all are in recovery from Fapping, but hopefully the "live and in person" life of intimacy can and should go on without limits. And don't misunderstand me, everybody doesn't have to see it my way, even as far as sexual values or cultural norms go, I just believe in getting with your partner and working it out. ;)
     
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  3. Sounds like the way to go! :)
     
  4. Phibz

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    I also disagree with most of the posts here. What if your wife were a quadriplegic? Would it be ok just to stick it in her mouth? For someone to feel that they "need" release is bullshit. This screams that one is still a slave to sex. It's no different than using a toy.
     
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  5. Sometimes I sit on my hand until it gets numb then give myself an M. It's almost feels like a stranger is doing it.


    But really. Idk.
     
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  6. Ikindaknew

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  7. Lol I didn't really read the thread, but seeing the subject remind me of this joke. Sorry for the bother.
     
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  8. Icyweb

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    For the most part, yes. They are also influenced/supported by the natural and evolutionary purpose of sex, which includes, but also goes beyond simple pleasure.
    I didn't mean to make a literal parallel to actual work, since I know some people don't find it a chore at all. What I was trying to do was illustrate that a hj or a bj is less than sex, and to use it in place of sex instead of in the context of sex is a perversion of what is good and natural. I can see how that wasn't very clear the first time though.

    Like you said, even if we end up not agreeing, some open conversation on the subject is good.

    That it is also wrong and a perversion of a good and natural thing.
    The main reason kids are starving and dying in 3rd world countries is because the governments of those countries control the food supply in order to oppress or control the people of those countries. Don't get me wrong, I think people should avoid having children when they can't provide for them, but contraception is not the only way to avoid pregnancy. NFP (Natural Family Planning) is one very effective way, another is simply not having sex. It isn't easy, but nobody is going to shrivel up and die from not having sex.
     
  9. Dr. J

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    Yes . . . if she asked you to because it turned her on to see you get off. Because you have a limited sexual horizon with a partner, please don't assume everyone should or will live by your values. If my wife encouraged me to do anything I'd do it. If it's not your thing, don't do it but don't judge others. Each couple works their shit out according to what they want, not what you would allow.
     
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  10. Dr. J

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    That is most certainly an opinion and not some sort of "fact". And I would venture an opinion that the majority doesn't share. Most women I've been with and certainly my wife and wanted to open up sexually, not close down and have a bunch of limits. I'm assuming based on your values that you also think homosexuality is a perversion which forgive me, is incredibly unscientific and backward.
     
  11. strongman

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    did anyone hear about terry crews porn addiction
     
  12. Ikindaknew

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    I quickly looked it up. Any kind of celebrity bringing attention to the phenomenon is a good thing. We are the point of the iceberg, THE PORNBERG!
     
  13. Phibz

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    She didnt ask him to. He clearly stated it as being a "need". He doesnt need it. Just merely stating a fact.
     

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