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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Squeezy, Apr 1, 2016.

  1. Squeezy

    Squeezy Fapstronaut

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    So November last year I was watching porn for a little while then my penis couldn't get erected for me to jerk off at this video, after trying to get a boner i finally did and was abled to bash one out but it was not fully erected. At that moment I thought maybe I got PIED but im not sure since most guys on here can get an erection to porn rather than to real girls whereas I couldnt or struggled to get one towards porn. However to test if i got PIED I went and had sex a number of times successfully with no problems at all.


    After what happened when I watched porn in November I decided to stop watching porn all together but at times where I couldn't have sex I would have such strong urges to have sex and arousal levels would be high. So to help deal with this I would sext or get booty pics and vids from my sex buddy to fantasize about sex with her or previous times we've had sex instead of watching porn. Occasionally I had a few wanks too and thought this was completely normal since I'm not doing it over porn or looking at porn because I'm doing it over a real person. Sometimes while on Facebook I would sometimes see booty shaking vids or girls in lingerie and this would get me feeling some type of way but I thought it would be fine since its not porn.

    But recently, like last week Monday I went and tried to have sex and I couldn't get it up and I was puzzled. After some oral sex I got it up eventually and was able to have sex but when I took it out of her I would start to lose the erection and would have to really try to get it up again. Eventually I gave up cos it was getting me anxious and depressed.

    But I want to know why I'm going through this when im not watching porn or PMO.
    I haven't watched porn or PMO since November 2015 and im going through ED.

    Someone please help with advice and rebooting

    Is it possible for me to reboot and how would you do this?
     
  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Squeezy:

    Welcome -- I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner.

    There are a lot of reasons to avoid porn and masturbation; the effect it can have on erections is only one. Also, have you considered that your problem might have another cause? Have you seen a doctor?
     
  3. Squeezy

    Squeezy Fapstronaut

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    Hey thanks for replying and I've never had problems having an erection. I don't drink alcohol or smoke or the drugs and no I haven't been doctors about this. I thought maybe cos of PMO that has caused this problem but I don't know.

    After stopped watching porn I would start to think of sex a lot (mostly of previous times where I've done it with partners), sometimes I would get an erection to test to see if i had ED and I pretty much did everytime but sometimes I struggled to get it up trying to think of sex. I thought masturbating to pictures of ur partner or thinking of them wouldn't cause ED but maybe cos I was in the process of recovering from porn addiction it interfared with it. But I really don't know.

    Any advice or ideas?
     
  4. This being a site for overcoming porn addiction, I would counsel that watching more porn or masturbating to memories of porn isn't going to help your ED. Your ED could be from many different things, either physical or psychological, like performance anxiety. It wouldn't be a bad idea to see a doctor for a basic checkup. Make sure you're not having anything wrong with the plumbing, then work on rewiring your brain to have healthier, more rewarding sex.
     
  5. Squeezy

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    Yeah i guess I should go doctors and I haven't been masturbating of porn memories. I don't get anxious about my performance and ever since the incident with wqtching porn last year November, this has been happening.
     

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