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Am I too extreme with this?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Golgo 13, Apr 9, 2016.

Am I too extreme?

  1. Yes, calm down

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  2. No, keep going

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  1. Golgo 13

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    Well I am also doing this because when I go without porn/masturbation I feel happier and more energy - I can feel the little things. Yes, I'm sorry dude but as a 20 year old I like to have sex for nothing more than pleasure and/or relationships. I'm not looking to reproduce and have a child lol. I am CERTAINLY not alone in that statement.
    Rebooting means maturing into the man I've Always wanted to be and I had a taste of it, now I want to complete it and go on about my life.
     
  2. Phibz

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  3. Phibz

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    on the same team.
    Thanks for checkin' me. You are right. If Golgi reaches his goal, good for him. I shouldn't judge. It just frustrates me to see the direction that NoFap is going. I don't think it's cool to promote masturbation. Not for us. Everybody wants to come up with a new definition of reboot to suit their own situations. I am so tired of seeing so much failure here. I'm not putting myself on a pedestal. I just know that if I did it, anyone can. I wish I could reach through this screen, grab their shoulders, shake them violently, slap them a few times, and scream "Wake up! Get a grip!" I think I'm reaching a point of needing to stay off of NoFap. Sometimes I drink, and I feel a need to act out to convince myself of this. Thanks again for calling me out.
     
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  4. Golgo 13

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    Never said masturbation was ok. And we are trying to succeed sorry we're not as perfect as you...
     
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  6. Harvhe

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    Your fear is rational, but one of the objectives is to mentally detach the strength of a psub on your unconcious, otherwise you're not completely free. Without the fear and incentive of psub triggering, p wont even enter your mind when seeing a psub even if you do attract a reaction from it. When i came off a heavy dose of P at the tender age of 14 due to extreme shame and outing myself to my family i still encountered p-subs but i was so distanced by the thought of revisiting the shame (not a healthy, but at-least a effective method) it didnt resurge in my mind the same kind of brain fog compulsion to watch.

    Good work on lasting so long by the way, should be proud.

    This is a typical chart of psub re-offender

    A (Psubs often randomly encountered or in the mind) to Ba (M) to Bb (PMO) = C (shame and a relapse)

    You can't ignore psubs existing or become a internet hermit forever, as much as you have to just learn to ignore p-subs and create a positive mental defense against it, even if it means laughing at how ludicrous it is.
     
  7. IGY

    IGY Guest

    What on God's green earth is a Refractory Rebbot!? :confused:
     
  8. That's what may happen when one attempts to reboot their operating system back to factory settings. Unfortunately the only way how to achieve factory reboot is smashing one's head hard enough with hammer until the system forcefully resets. Unfortunately this method is not very reliable, sometimes system can malfunction and reset to refractory rebbot instead. Before trying this method it's always recommended to back up one's data in a USB drive, flash drive or external hard drive sperm bank.
     
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  9. Golgo 13

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    Lmfao. Its something I made up I guess. Its basically having your refactory period (the time after orgasm when you can get hard again and have sex) be restored to pre-porn levels. Idk, its basically just dont masturbate for 81 days... I am going to meet this girl I have a crush on in July so... yea.
     
  10. IGY

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    LOL! Oh, ok - who knew? :p
     

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