Fun Analogies for Understanding Consent

This just tells me that women don't know themselves what they want. They send so many mixed signals because their brain is chaos. They are lost in their own brain. A guy's responsibility is to help those poor, confused creatures or else they would starve to death. Is that's what you're saying?

 

Partly... but no really. Sometimes I feel that way a little. But I guess to them that makes sense. Sometimes I wish I would be gay, things would be so much easier...

 

Yea, I get ya, I get ya...

Speaking of pants tho. Sometimes woman does not like any pair of pants. She does not want to try on any pants. She does not even think that she needs any pants. In fact, she is not even planning to go to store at all! But somehow she still ends up in store buying 3 pairs of pants and wearing them on herself, all 3 at once. Figure that out...

 

Or maybe pants changed her mind! She was like "I don't need any pants" and pants were like "you need pants" then she was like "I need pants". Sometimes you just have to be a man and tell her what's up! Show that you are an alpha pants. Not just your average Chinese crafted casual pants that will go out of fashion next summer. Maybe when woman goes to store and ends up trying out many pants and never buying any might mean that there just isn't any good pants around worth buying!

 

Also, I just wanna add that there is no such thing as consent. There is "yes" (which means "yes") and there is "no" (which means "yes"). Muhuahaha!

 

Rape jokes are never funny.

 

Regret is not rape.
Men are not rapists; humans are rapists.
Women are not victims; humans are victims.

I, for fun, asked most of the people I work with what they feel the punishment for rape, after a fair trail, should be. We all liked "death"

 

Meanwhile, the supreme court ruled against that because they knew there were men getting convicted on flimsy evidence.

 

I said fair trial

 

This just makes me sad for our society. Most of the people are sociopathic murderers. They primary emotions to go to is fear and anger, instead of love and compassion. That's one of the root problems of this world.

 

So you want to love and understand rapists? You want to hug people who wamt to kill you?
I dont think our society is full of murderers, I think we have a lot of people who understand the world.

 

Well, I guess I should put "murderers" in quotes. Cos what is murder? One definition of murder is that it is killing without valid excuse. And no, I don't think in this case it is a valid excuse. People are simply angry and not objective. Anger is not valid excuse. If somebody attacks your life or life of somebody else killing them to prevent that is a valid excuse. But in this case, in my opinion, punishment does not fit the crime. But I guess that's subjective.

If you want your beliefs in life to be driven by fear and hate then I guess go on, I don't want to. That's not healthy for my own mentality. I do not claim to understand everything about the world. But how can somebody who is living with fear and anger based mentality can possibly see the world for what it is? Those things clouds the judgement and distorts perception.

Yes. I want to hug them, sure. And understand them. I want to cure them. I see criminals as mentally sick people. People can change. They need to be helped and rehabilitated with approach of love, compassion and respect. That is how we change them. Not punishment. There is nothing constructive in punishment. Especially death penalty. It simply makes us feel better. It does not changes things. If somebody kills and law system kills them back now all we did was waste two lives instead of one. What a victory, isn't it? ...

The whole justice system is in my opinion dysfunctional. Punish, punish, punish. Lock up and forget about the problem. Close your eyes and ears and hope than once he is released in 20 years time he won't kill/rape anymore. We are creating more criminals in jail system than we are "rehabilitating".

 

I will totally agree, if I understand what youre putting down, that we have a mental health issue in the world. A 15 yr old robs a place and getting locked away for decades wont really solve anything.

However, i understand and know that there are people who wont change. I know that laws don't prevent crime. Consequences stop crime. Risk vs reward. Part of the system is keeping dangers away. I think too many people who can be helped are locked away but there are evil people out there.
But I tell you what, me and the others like me will shoulder that awful burden of being mean and angry and keeping that evil at bay so you can explain how we are afraid. I think there are too many quotes out there but one comes to mind "I used to be scared, then I became what I fear most; death"

It's a great dream that everyone just repsect everyone and be nice. That's not the world we live in.
Im afraid of spiders, alligators, wasps, my kid growing up and hating me, my country resenting me (which is fucking happening) but I dont fear criminals; I'm better trained. And yeah, they may at some point kill me but i will go to the grave happy knowing that I will be the hardest son of a bitch they ever fought. Then again, I'm the 1% so I'm different than you.

What do you think about how our country are handling the mentally ill

 

I don't believe that. I don't think there is such thing as too far gone.

I'm not against locking people up either. I'm against how we treat those people when they are locked up. We just lock them up and pretty much leave them marinate there. Not enough involvement from government in actual rehabilitation work and not enough positive reinforcement and conditioning.

Of course it isn't. But does that mean we have to just accept it? "Why even bother... it's just a dream. Real life is what is it, face it!" Well, I can face it, but I don't wanna accept it...

If not fear than anger maybe, or a similar emotion. My point is it all comes from somewhere that negative side of spectrum...

We can still do what is necessary with love and compassion in our minds. Yes, even killing people. It's not about not doing what is necessary and pretending world is unicorns and rainbows when it isn't. To me it's about seeing world as it is. But working on changing things that we want to see changed, or at very least being ourselves a part of change that we want to see in a world, if that's all we can do.

I don't think we are from same country. And I am not very well informed on this. But generally all around the world I think we rely too much on drugs.

 

Thank you.

 

Thank you for posting this. It even gives me perspective that it isn't my fault that I was hurt/abused when I was younger. Thank you.