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Does Jelqing work?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by fjerid, Apr 14, 2016.

  1. fjerid

    fjerid Fapstronaut

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    Anyone tried jelqing? Like not for a few weeks like me but for months.

    My dick is nicknamed shrimp dick when in flacid state and in full erection mode the poor fella is only 4,5 inches long.

    Many sites state that jelqing does indeed work but they carry some serious risks if performed poorly. Did you have any positive or negative experiences regarding jelqing?
     
  2. IGY

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    I cannot give you anything to go on from personal experience. But I would just point out that it may be a thing to come back to later. It is surely going to make your no masturbation and no porn abstinence more difficult if you are frequently handling your junk. :rolleyes:
     
  3. I wouldn't try it as well as it gives you some stimulations down there while you shouldn't do it during a nofap/not using porn streak.
    Believe me, you go from a slight stimulation to a state where you can't stop thinking about masturbating and orgasm. Do it at your own peril though.

    PS: I was also into the inch/cm thing month ago because I was watching and wondering how porn performers could have these BIG JUNKS.
    I learnt later that they were gulping pills and stretching it always before filming a scene. So EH...
    And later, "how big it is" won't matter anymore.
    PS²: There are many other ways to pleasure someone other than your dick (and that is much more fun to use them !!)
     
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  4. IGY

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    A 4½" hard cock is big enough dude. :rolleyes: As for what it looks like when soft, it's unimportant. Don't give yourself a complex.
     
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  5. fjerid

    fjerid Fapstronaut

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    Guess you're right. But just seeing my dick in a flaccid state makes me wanna go full jelq mode haha. Ever seen one of those greek sculptures? Well thats exactly how mine looks like too. But yes, you're right bout the part where it'd become difficult for me. Because I tried it before during nofap and sometimes it led to fapping. Perhaps i'll try it later when I relapse. Day 23 and still going hard! No sweat, broke my personal record :)

    I've learned that internet is a major reason why i kept relapsing. Even the slightest nudity like a sexy music video or a hot IG chick made me relapse. I've deleted IG, FB and only watch my YT sub box. No big deal when all the nudity is gone!
     
  6. fjerid

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    It really does make it more difficult... which is why I will try it later! First I want to see some real testomonials of people who tried jelqing. And do some more research. 4,5inch might be enough, but an extra inch of length or girth is always welcome! It's more of a personal issue, never heard a girl say my dick is small because no girl has ever seen it haha. So quite frankly i'm afraid of what they will say/think when they do see it. But i have noticed that the more i'm into nofap, the less fucks I give about what others think of me. Even my dick size lol. It's only day 23... do the benefits grow? I can't imagine how day 150 would be like lol.
     
  7. By flaccid state are you refering to the flatline period, where your dick doesn't have any energy ? Then, it is normal as I also noticed a reduction of size during that period in a past streak. This is at this moment where I "fucked" up my streak getting all worried of how it could stand anymore.
    But this is a necessary state as you don't get attracted to porn related stuff anymore (if you keep not watching it) and then replace it completely by something else.
    Around 90 days I believe you stabilize. There is no new benefits, the only benefits are the ones appearing after 20 days (no brain fog, gain of concentration, less anxious, more active) and that's about it. Now you need to use these "TOOLS" to make your life better (in your own way) ==>SPORTS/STUDIES/STUFF THAT MATTER

    About your first time apprehension, I would say by experience that it is never a great moment but it is natural and everyone (even the "best") went through this.
    If a girl want to sleep with you, it is not thanks to your dick but thanks to yourself. The first girl you'll sleep with won't be necessary the last and only one in your life ;)
     
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  8. Dude,
    4-5 inches is good enough..its not how big you are that matters anyhow..unless you're super small which doesn't seem to be the case. The risks associated with jelqing are pretty real and i once considered it too, but dropped the idea after learning more about the risks. I wouldn't recommend it. I am not sure, but i think it basically works on the idea of breaking down the blood capillaries or something which help you get an erection when blood flows to your weiner, these capillaries are supposed get reformed to a larger size than before due to the jelqing. Seems like a dangerous idea to me..o_O
     
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  9. fjerid

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    It works exactly like that. At least thats what ive learned.. indeed the risks are whats holding me back.
     
  10. fjerid

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    Very true, thanks bro!

    Yes both. I'm refering to the state when your d is not hard and in flatline. But you've also noticed a reduction of size during your flatline? So perhaps its a normal thing? I've relapsed many, many times during my flatline because of the same reasons you mentioned. But this time i'll accept my dead dick and move on to other subjects. Btw the benefits that you've mentioned, do these grow stronger? (Like even more concentration, even more active)

    "Never a great moment".. oh man this is what I keep hearing from everyone. Makes me even more curious for my 1st time. A genuine question; people report that their sexlife is ALOT better since they started nofap (no ED, more stamina etc) but don't they cum alot faster than usual? At least for me, when i fap after a 20 day streak my dick is sensitive as hell lol. How does this work the opposite way?
     
  11. Yeah I noticed the same reduction during the flatline period and anyone will confirm it so no worries.
    Do they grow stronger ? Hum nah, you'll get probably a better concentration but then you need to refine it to make it better and that only occurs by your own willpower (like a muscle you need to workout), you'll just be in better condition to read a book, grasp its essence and make a paper for example. The result might not be the best at first but it get better with practice.

    The "Never a great moment" quote isn't really relevant. If for your first time you put your expectations too high then, yeah, it won't be an amazing moment yet it will be something and you'll learn from this first experience: which way you like it the best, what did she liked and hated, etc. So again, don't worry !
     
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  12. fjerid

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    Thanks for the comforting words, appreciate it!

    I did notice that i'm able to read a book for longer periods of time and in public without getting distracted too much (like I used to) but the thing that drives me most are the two benefit: more energy and less anxiety in public. I workout frequently now and start to notice some nice gains. Also, i find myself talking to strangers when im jogging even to girls. These two are enough for me to stick to Nofap. The rest are just very nice bonusses!
     
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  13. If that's really how it works then that sounds counter-intuitive. When veins or capillaries are destroyed, they are replaced with new ones, but smaller ones than before. As an ex IV drug addict, I lost all the main veins on my arms - new veins came back with time and after lots of working out my arms, but they're small tiny veins not like the big thick ones that allowed lots of blood through before. As a result I had some circulation problems in my hands for a while etc (although they're now better).

    Trying to achieve the same effect in your dick just sounds like a great way to reduce your size rather than increase it. I wouldn't risk it.

    Besides, there are ways to increase the number of veins you have without breaking down existing ones. Anyone here who has worked out might have noticed new veins forming as their muscles got bigger - that's because as you increase the blood flow to those areas, the existing veins aren't enough when the blood is pumping through there quickly, and so new ones start to form. The same is true for the veins all over your body.

    If you ensure that blood is circulating your body at a fast and intense rate every day (lots of exercise/working out) then new veins will have to grow to accommodate the extra flow. Cardio is great for this as cardio gets the blood flowing throughout the whole body.

    I also started taking a herb called Tribulus about a month ago to complement my NoFap streak, since it has purported androgen receptor (where testosterone binds) up-regulating effects that could help reverse some of the damage done by PMO and my past opiate addiction etc. It's popular in some circles as a libido enhancer, but perhaps most notably for me was the effect it has on the veins on my dick. Several prominent new veins have appeared, and as a result more blood can get in there, and my girth has increased significantly. Length seems around the same but being that I'm doing NoFap I haven't really had a good chance for a side-by-side measurement.

    It's not why I took Tribulus, and I don't have any problems with my size, so I can't really assess the effects fully - but it's perhaps worth investigating if your size is really bothering you though.
     
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  14. Kennen

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    Is your dick thin, thick or normal?

    Can you send me a pic of your dick?

    Joke :rolleyes:
     
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  15. Physicist

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    Find a smaller girl, 5 inches can be too big for them.

    Second, if you are going to attempt PE, then best to wait at least when you are 30 days in.
     
  16. Zeenek

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    Hello fjerid,
    I will tell you story with my dick with similar sizes 4.7 - 5.10 inch.

    One upon time i had a girl :D wow with this small dick hehe :D
    I had problem with PMO all time but then i don't know yet...
    We were trying to put my dick inside, it was very funny :) finally when i put in her, we do sex with feelings and sometimes just hard sex :) She was very happy. We done it all, normal and oral sex. We were very happy. She wasn't to stand during the sex with me. So my small dick was enough for her.
    I had heartbroken when one girl after my ex girl, ask me why my dick is so small? ehh it was stupid girl. It was small dick for her but she wanted sex with me. but unfortunatelly my dick failed. i like very much sex and foreplay too :) So don't worry about your size, you can do it all.
     
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  17. fjerid

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    PE?
     
  18. fjerid

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    That's interesting. I have found a few testimonials where they said that their dick actually shrunk in size lol. I won't take the risk even if the chances are very small. I will, however, look into that herb that you've been taking. Thanks dude!
     
  19. fjerid

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    So basically our dicksize is more than enough to pleasure a woman! ^^
     
  20. Nature is well done and for over thousand of years humans didn't complain, we are still making babies so it is working right and fine !
    lol
     
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