Please Join me!!!!!

Day 22 night going to sleep . Had a wet dream today . Completely forgot that i had a wet dream today i realized in the afternoon .It was a completely blank one . Took bath .A fine day .HAve a nice day you all . Tommorow is always better than today or yesterday .
Tip: Stay feirced stay focused. Just don't loose today.

 

@Superman64 .......You are killing it brother! I'm right there behind you. I totally get everything you expressed. Perhaps though with the passage of time and more clarity you can have a female partner and healthy sexual relationship if that's what you want. I'm 48. Divorced. My son is 14. I'm going this "Hardcore" mode (no sex with women. ) I've discovered that you truly can be happy by yourself. It's a great thing. I've wasted alot of time over the years on not just pmo but also just having alot of sex with multiple women. Did it feel good? Yes. Did I gain any lasting truths or deep insights? No. There are always consequences for our actions. Today I don't need a woman or sex to have a great life. I view myself as a warrior -DrummingBeast-monk who is also raising a teenager. I want to spend my time on things that will make a difference and enhance my life in ways other than just base physical pleasure.

 

Thanks,

That clears things up for me. As I would say your like a Samaria Warrior and mentally your moving to an isolated mountain. To where you can forget everything you have learned. Only then you will be a true Samaria Master!

Continue your meditations!

 

Day 37

Together towards healing, together towards enlightenment

 

Another day staying focused and developing equanimity. It takes practice. We can all be masters if we pUT in the work. Be like a mountain. It gets hammered by fierce winter storms,high winds,heavy snow. In the summer powerful thunderstorms pound down on it and torrential downpours of rain. Through it all the mountain sits. Unmoved and unfazed.

 

Day 22 and 22 days of no urge no fantasies no false behaviours and no false realities I am incredible

 

Dude just keep the courage up the job up the heat up the goal and keep yourself in the first position just don't f..King loose it you are incredible fighter we cannot afford to loose you . You are our future

 

Thx you too bro for understanding me

 

Argh guys. Again. And I really don't know what to do with it. I don't want to relapse anymore, but after a longer time, I become uncontrollable. Help me please.

 

Dude you are amazing! I don't have as many days as you but I'm sharing the same attitude!

 

@RitualAesthetic ........I've been there many times. Try a different strategy. You (me 2) need 2 find a replacement for this in a healthy manner. Really look at your life. What do you want out of it ? Do you 2 still want 2 be here talking about the same shit 5,10,15 years from now? If you can make it thru 1 day u can make it thru 100 days, 1000 days until pmo is but a distant memory. I've seen long term recovery from this with no relapses. It's possible for all of us, but each of us must walk the path. We can support each other but individually we have 2 put the work in. It's ok!!!!!!!! Start over! You can do it. So much more 2 life than this.

 

@Phoenix333 I know what was the cause of every damn relapse... Mobile phone. There is no way to block porn on it, so it was the breach in my stone wall. Now there is NO WAY to access porn for me. And I will try to plan my day now, not just go through it. And the last thing that will help me: I shouldn't avoid videogames, as they are not an addiction for me, they are useful timekillers when I need it. And I will try to post here more often now, because I can't lost my motivation. Thanks for help.

 

Dude, since you have this strong determination with no surrender it means you are succeeding. Remember always that pain is temporary but giving up is permenant.

Creat as much pain from PMO as you can and start a new hobby and make new friends, meet up application is a great way for socializing I am currently using.

We are all with you, you are special as yourself , brave and strong.

 

The important thing is, that even in 3 days my confidence grew up so strong, and I made a bunch of new friends. Stay strong brother.

 

This is day 2 for me too bro. Road to 90 we got this!

 

Does anyone else gets urges to think of sex with people or just porn instead?

 

I'm your newest addition to the team. Let's do this.

 

Just starting the 1st day of my first no PMO 60 days challenge

 

Yes! I went to a gym today to see about a membership and the woman that showed me around look like a model. I think to some to degree it's normal to think about having sex but controlling the thoughts and the urges are important. My mind takes things to a level I don't want to go in real life. At the same time my fantasies are real life to a degree. The actions I take as a result of my fantasies give me negative feelings and less than a productive day.

 

You can do it! We all can. Pmo is fucking bs! I'm tired of stumbling and relapse. I'm on day 5. Let's all get to 90 together.