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MO for "Fresher Seed" when TTC??

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Surfer, Apr 19, 2016.

  1. Surfer

    Surfer Fapstronaut

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    So wife and I are trying to conceive, and all the advice says that you should ejaculate every 2-3 days for the freshest and healthiest sperm. If we're not having sex that often, I'm wondering if I should MO (quickly, with no porn, no edging, etc...) in order to keep my guys fresh.?
    Any other young guys out there TTC with their wives have any thoughts on this?
     
  2. IamMike

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    If you want to have even less sex (quality and ultimately frequency) then go ahead and MO.

    There is NO excuse under the sun to masturbate. Unless you have sex with your wife once every 3 months, stockpiling a bit actually gives you better volume, erections and ejaculations, and would, under normal circumstances, actually better serve your purpose.
     
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  3. Surfer

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    Hey thanks for the reply.

    I'm not looking for an "excuse" to MO. I've actually been pretty good and I'm hesitant to try to MO for this purpose because I don't want it to cause any problems. However, everything I've read says that sperm are less healthy after a few days of no ejaculation (lower mobility, start to mutate, etc...) and that this reduces chances of conceiving. It's not about the quality of sex (I don't think that's in danger. I've never had PIED or ED at all.)

    So, I'm wondering if I were to MO quickly with no edging, no drawn out fantasies, and obviously no porn, if that would have the same dopamine effect of contributing to the addiction or not. Essentially, I'm trying to weigh the pros and cons. We've been ttc for a while, and I don't want my sperm health to be the reason that we're not able to. At the same time, I don't want to exacerbate the unhealthy addiction of PMO. So, I'm trying to figure out what the risks are in comparison to the potential benefits, etc..

    I'd really appreciate input from guys who have been in a similar situation.
     
  4. BobDobbs

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    This is bullshit. The only danger in masturbating is the potential for relapse into porn and/or binging. If you have previously experienced PIED or DE, then it might be another matter. Just judge for yourself if your physical response seems altered. But if you have had PE, then a little masturbation can be helpful in building stamina.

    There's no difference in volume between 10 days and 10 months. If a doctor says fresh sperm are better, then masturbating a few days before sex won't hurt. In physical terms, the problem with PMO addiction is the HABIT. Moderate masturbation will not affect your performance, sensation, or quality of you ejaculation.

    Emotional damage might be another issue though. Again just for yourself what your own mental state and relationship are like.
     
  5. IamMike

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    Hold on cowboy. This is NoFap's forum. No FAPPING. You (along with all of us here) know how easy it is for "casual medicinal masturbation" to eventually become that exact damaging habit you speak of. NOBODY (normal) just faps once a week... the chaser, times of stress, boredom always ends up having its way. Excessive PMO may cure the PE, but you'll have PIED, ED, etc forever.

    If you need fresh sperm.. why can't you have regular sex with your wife?
     
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  6. 8BitsOfStuggling

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    My question for you is one I am shocked to not have seen proposed yet. Everyone is focusing on the morality of MO in this situation. My question is, why are you jumping to MO instead of just sex. You have a wife, who isn't pregnant and therefore from the information I know - it's safe to deduce she can have sex and probably enjoys it. So why not just have more sex? Why would you be more interested in MO than just increasing the frequency of sex with your wife? Not to be rude, but what am I missing here?
     
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  7. Ikindaknew

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    Surfer,

    If you guys want a kid, there is only one way. Inside her! Not in a tissue.
    I remember when we decided to have a kid. 3 times unprotected sex and BOOM the wife was pregnant. I was like FAWK! This is too quick!

    And then, she got nausea for 7 months of pregnancy...no sex for me...and the wife caught me PMO'ing at 8 months pregnant. She was NOT impressed....

    My advice: You two start screwing like rabbits right now and keep going. Cause you never know how much sex you'll get during pregnancy. It could be plenty, which I hope its the case for you, but make no mistakes, the "preggo" fetish stuff on P sites is BS. Not all women feel comfortable doing sex during pregnancy. YMMV!

    Good luck!
     
    Last edited: Apr 24, 2016
  8. Golgo 13

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    I can confirm this, I jacked off once then ended up jacking off for a month, tlod myself "ok, now I'm quitting forreal"
    @BobDobbs I don't accept that. When I jacked off for the first time in 2+ months the amount of seman was massive. It had little 'balls' of jizz compacted. They looked yellowish. The orgasm was also much more intense.
    Not saying the sperm will be any different but the increase in seman certainly makes it alot more chunky.
     
    Last edited: Apr 24, 2016
  9. Surfer

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    It's a legitimate question. I definitely prefer sex with my wife over MO. Even over PMO! But we don't have the porno relationship of dropping everything and having sex at my whim. Lol. Schedules are tough. Sometimes she's not in the mood, etc.. We are upping our frequency––but typically only around ovulation time. However, we both tend to get in the mindset (especially her) that sex is just (or at least, primarily) about getting pregnant, so it's less likely when she's not ovulating that we will have sex on a regular enough basis to keep the boys "fresh". The point of the dilemma is this:
    When ovulation is coming up, and if I know that we are likely not going to have sex every 2-3 days leading up to it, should I clean out the pipes myself every 2-3 days?
     
  10. BobDobbs

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    You don't need to clean out the pipes EVERY 2-3 days, just once or twice, 2 or 3 days prior to ovulation.
     
  11. 8BitsOfStuggling

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    Or... Just have sex before you fast for 2-3 days for ovulation. You don't have to have a "porno" sex life. If you guys don't look at sex as a means of procreation and more about marital intimacy, it should seem a lot more appealing. Right now, you guys are making sex a job, and jobs get boring.
     

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