Please Join me!!!!!

Day 2 for me. I've never gone 90 days before. I gotta do this too, I'm in bro.

 

You are welcome mate, Let's beat up this addiction together. Keep focused and strong.

 

You can do it buddy, you are as strong as your will to quit. Keep going you are the Man!

 

It is Day 38

When I look at 90 Days goal I feel there is still a long way to go, but when I look how far I have reached I become more courageous to reach there.

We ALL can reach there, and even far beyond.

 

Dude both are wrong because they both lead to the same thing as they are similar. You don't have to think like that too . If you think of s.x it it will keep growing in you and after maybe more days it will become a problem . Just stay away from these places . I know and I am right the woman is the only cause . just stay away from them . It makes you relax and it feels better and calmer. Not from all woman only those who expose themselves and are the cause . If you are mature enough than its ok . Because mature people don't think like that but still. Be hard be tough be strong no women can please you . You are a real man. We are bad company . The company of soldiers . We don't waste time with women like cowards we fight we die we protect . We are the elite . The legends. And we succeed and we achieve what we desire.
The main point here is to change the mindset we all have framed in. The problem its big and real big . You cannot bring the whole world to the right path all you can do is you can bring yourself to the right path . This worldly life is a muddy path . Its your choice to cross path without dipping yourself in the mud and get dirty or cross path with as much cleanliness as possible . The people have beed framed by this devil for a decade which have changed their mindsets which can be observed in films dramas advertisements etc. We all are all people irrespective of the western or Asian society irrespective of the religion cast or creed . We posses the same brain . We do same things . We eat we sleep we work we enjoy etc. We have two hands two legs and a body with one face. The point is about changing mindset because its the only way we can proceed forward . You cannot just change in one day it will take time . You wish to not to desire but you have to. Not all women in this world are your wives or girlfriends. Wether they are hot or not you cannot think of them all in the same way. It is permissible to think in that way only for wife or girlfriend (future wife) . Try to live in reality because it will just cause you pain and suffering as it is doing right now against which we are fighting. All girls are the same it depends on you how you think of them . Modeling a big remedy too . If you believe everybody is created equally believe it wrong . Try to understand what I am saying . Its the truth which you need to accept . Women are meant to cover themselves up not expose them and if they do hate them . I am not criticizing all women just a few who are the bad fishes in the pond. Exposing mean you know the urges shit gross. You all will find true loves in your life and when you do all the feelings bad related to s.x p m will fade and you will hate them a hundred times more and the she would the most beautiful person to you . I am saying cuz I have experienced its fraction . You will just think of spending time with her and protecting her from every danger . You will just think of sacrificing every you have got for her . You will just think of marrying her and be with her till death. When she would be around you you will feel like you have conquered the whole and you need nothing else . You will feel like and pretend to be hero . The feelings for all other women will disappear and the only thing which remains is her like an angel . you will feel like the only thing you need to achieve is her and she is your biggest success you can ever achieve. I am not wasting time writing this big post I am uncovering one of the secrets which all people are not aware off. People marry wrong people and get divorced sooner they think off. Because they their partners wrongly judging them wrongly . some people don't feel happy with their husband or wife and seek others for full filling desires . Love is not about personal desires its about sacrifice . Love is about giving your loved ones the whole happiness in this world making them happy in all ways . Sacrificing even your life for them . Love is pure clean . And the white thin which you contain is the love not pmo.

 

Bro ! if you feel normal I totally disagree with you . Because it just disturbs your life and all the things happen which every people can experience. Its a false reality which mind creates . If youhave that feelingfor any woman and she is just a stranger run from her because its your nightmare feel scared . The only think which is acceptable is like a woman and marry her. Look I am reality minded . I don't like to or don't want to live in fantasies shit or any.The point Isthe things which are not real and you try to build them it will not make any sense and it will just waste you your time you hardwork etc.And by the way whats the point of hiring woman in the gym . Body building is for men not for women . Maybe its jjust a policy of hiring hot girls and increasing the no of employees to get their business on the road .It makes no sense to hire a woman trainer in a men gym . Ok if it is a co gym where both men and women come they should separate the trainers too. Try to understand you are being continuously framed by this world in all aspects .

 

Day 23 I went with my mom in the morning to my college for some work . Came back and felt just a little urge and disturbances and came to this thread I don't completely like it .The place where I live is good. Women are clean good they cover up themselves . And it feels good to be out somewhere . I am lucky to have a place like this . People are clean . Man own the streets and the roads . Traffic is high and a metropolitan city . And my all relative live here I don't want to go anywhere else .
Tip : Be with people who can drive to the right path because only people can push in hole.

 

That's the spirit

 

Welcome all new comers

 

It's actually a very good sign.

 

To clarify. I made an appointment to see about joining a gym. The woman that showed me around the gym so happens to be a trainer. I did not hire her as a trainer. They have a male trainer and a female trainer. I am deciding what my physical goals are to be and then will decide on which trainer best fits my needs; if any. I have a 7 day free trail period that I am using. I had an amazing workout today because I'm amazing. Yes I said it, I'm amazing!

As far as beautiful women they are everywhere in this town (women are beautiful!). It's a small town with a University and the weather is getting nicer out side. So all the girls are running around in tight clothing. For me at this time in my life it's not about "The Warriors Call". Though it can help! It's more about accepting things. There is a lot of research out their that states men think about sex every six or seven seconds and women too, but not as often. The point is we are sexual beings. If I didn't think about sex I would think something is wrong with me.

Additionally it's okay to define myself. Just because everyone says this is an addiction doesn't mean I have to call myself a porn addict. I called myself an Alcoholic for years and didn't care for it. I prefer to think of this as a guy problem. If more women had an issue with it than I would call it a human problem. It's the most basic of instincts. It goes hand in hand with food. We are hard wired to reproduce. Sex and intimacy are "needs" according to maslow and I think so too.

Plus I felt guilty and ashamed about pmo for so many years. I don't want to go back to those emotions again. Even if I pmo again it's my body. Not to say I wouldn't feel like bad but relapse may be a part of recover or it may not be. Going to extremes does not seem helpful for me at this time. God and me are the ones that judge me at the end of the day. So for me I surrender and find peace.

P.S. I say the woman that showed me around the gym again today. Odd, she didn't seem as beautiful or it didn't bother me as much. Plus she could have gotten really all made up to sell me something. That's her job! Any it's all good. Working on day 12 I think. I need a dang counter. Where is the counter?

 

Newcomer here...and starting my 90 day challenge today! Great to see such a supportive community here...until today I had no idea anything like this existed. Looking forward to this journey, and kicking the s**t out of this addiction.

 

Day 12 - Tues.
Well...the struggle is real. Only time and dedication will train my mind to not seek out P. Difficult to avoid letting my mind go to that place. Perhaps the reason is because it fills some sort of void. Will have to figure that out.

Good day to us all.

 

Really

 

Good luck

 

Good to have a goal but take it 24 hours. 90 days can seem overwhelming. I started out with the 7 day challenge and pmo on the 4th day. It's all good. I'm working on day 12 now.

 

Welcome all ! Sexuality is a natural thing. We don't need to obsess about. To break a habit you need to make a habit. Don't make the emphasis on giving up pmo or stopping a behavior. Make it on having an awesome life! Get excited about something! School! A career. Do something you're passionate about! If you're not passionate about something then go find something! Find something you are excited about getting out of bed and doing. Get stoked. Get pumped. Be happy and have a great life. If all we do is focus on stopping pmo or giving it up we will continue to fail.........

 

Today we are 110 days into 2016. 90 days will fly by. Where will you be ? It's a good question to ask yourself.

 

Very true.